edmandu1212 Posted March 7, 2006 Posted March 7, 2006 Well this girl i've been hanging out with and hooked up with a few times has shown some feelings towards me and we've even talked about oficially dating. But sometimes she just shows no interest, like she says she'll call me and never will so I always have to call her and she just seems uninterested but then at times she is interested. I don't know if im forcing it too hard to work out or if shes just playing really hard to get or what but I get so many different vibes from her It's crazy.
monkey00 Posted March 7, 2006 Posted March 7, 2006 Well this girl i've been hanging out with and hooked up with a few times has shown some feelings towards me and we've even talked about oficially dating. But sometimes she just shows no interest, like she says she'll call me and never will so I always have to call her and she just seems uninterested but then at times she is interested. I don't know if im forcing it too hard to work out or if shes just playing really hard to get or what but I get so many different vibes from her It's crazy. Dont be too available in the beginning. Sounds to me like her interest in you is fluxuating (or not really high). Back off for now and let her make the call.
gfto Posted March 7, 2006 Posted March 7, 2006 A woman with a good attitude is usually pretty direct when she's highly interested in you. Hard to say much about your situation without more specifics. When you say you've discussed officially dating, I'm guessing that you brought up the topic with her, which is a mistake. Let her bring that up.
littlepiggy1 Posted March 7, 2006 Posted March 7, 2006 I've known some women that would avoid telling a guy who was interested that they weren't interested because they didn't want to hurt his feelings. As a result, they'd send out all these mixed signals. OTOH, maybe she's just following "The Rules" or some other stupid mind-games.
monkey00 Posted March 7, 2006 Posted March 7, 2006 I've known some women that would avoid telling a guy who was interested that they weren't interested because they didn't want to hurt his feelings. As a result, they'd send out all these mixed signals. OTOH, maybe she's just following "The Rules" or some other stupid mind-games. that's the problem wiht women, they're too concerned of what others think of them. But problem nowadays if a woman is too upfront, guys just think they're a bitch (please excuse my language).
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 YOU're the guy so YOU call her. Maybe she thinks you're not interested because you don't call? I've been sitting at home for 2 weeks waiting for the phone to ring but I refuse to call him. I'm sick and tired of initiating contact. If he's interested, HE should call me.
lizzieTM Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 I have just been told by a guy that ive only recently got involved with that i give out mixed signals and that he cant read me and it confuses him. i really dont realise that im doing it but im trying to change the way i am because i like him maybe you should tell her? then maybe she'll realise? or she could jst be playin games with you i guess.
SmoochieFace Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 I don't believe in *signals*. If you like someone, just tell them. Much better to be direct to the point. Forget about that *body language* crap and use your mouth and SPEAK. That's why you have one.
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