I feel he disrespected me as a woman and I should not be treated like that

[abyssalsmile]

ok here goes my story..

I am 25 yrs old and have 1 daughter I have a boyfriend of 1 yr. & 4 months but have known for about 5 yrs total.We get along great as far as communication,living together ect.. Recently I got a little drunk at a night club he runs on saturday nights and he got me kicked out of the club.. Let me go back though I dont mind being kicked out (cuz I was drunk) but not by his security guards I would prefer it to be him and that did not happened..I ended up staying by one of my girlfriends that night because I was hurt by what he did. Yes I came home but this has been almost 3 weeks and I still cant forgive him . I feel he disrespected me as a woman and I should not be treated like that. I need to know should I just let this go and let bygones be bygones or be mad still and leave him . Help!!!

[PlentyLV007]

okay...I'm going to be very honest with you!!!

First off...you know this is his club that he works at and what not....you were drunk....and maybe don't really c yourself when you are drunk...maybe got out of hand, (thinking in his mind) making him look stupid, embarrasing him, and he just couldn't deal with it.....

 

I mean have you guys talked about it. You said it's been 3 weeks and you can't forgive him c'mon. You've been with the guy over a year and since you live w/ him all I can recommend is laugh it off..."good times"...don't take it too seriously.

 

I'm sure he's not thinking too much into it as you are...or just talk to him about it. I don't think you should break up w/ him for it....