can u be in love with 2 people at the same time???????

[shell1162]

Is there chance u could be inlove with 2 people at once?

[riobikini]

We never love two people in exactly the same way, -so, yes, you can.

 

But speaking only regarding romantic relationships, -it's rough carrying out the full responsibilities of romantic love with one person, much less two people at the same time, although, history will prove to you there have been those who have done just that.

 

However precariously and complicated.

 

I certainly do not not think that it is prudent to carry on in two relationships at the same time for many reasons.

 

For one, in our so-called civilized society, it is just not generally accepted.

 

Two, there are more important things to consider, -mainly concerning yourself, and the possible stress and complications of being involved in multiple romantic relationships.

 

Loads of stuff there to consider, which would take up most of this board.

 

Thing one, that I suggest, -is really make a thorough investigation into why you think you are in love with two people, to begin with.

 

That's gonna take some time.

 

I'll bet, that if you come back to this board in six months, you'll have a different story, altogether, to tell.

 

But keep us posted in the meantime.

 

(Smile)

 

Take care.

 

-Rio

[Art_Critic]

Certainly.. we all have the capabilty of loving many people at once

[johan]

My answer is a definite yes. I confess to being deeply in love with myself and that handsome guy that looks back at me in the mirror every morning. Sigh....

[Hungryhorse]

Hi shell1162, a short time ago I went out with two guys at the same time, both considered me their girlfriend, this situation carried on for approx 4 months. I did not sleep with either. Although I never lied I never told them the truth either and in the end the guilt and confusion of the whole thing began to get to me. I also had no time left for myself. One guy I was more physically attracted to and the other guy made me laugh more. In the end I felt this couldn't carry on for much longer so chose the one who made me laugh the more but now I sometimes wish I had chosen the other one. Think each one had what the other one was lacking which made it rather difficult. I wish I had not met them both at the same time and been single as the whole thing would have been a lot easier.

[innocent eyes]

yeah, it can happen, but eventually as they said you will end up

loving /choosing one, because of the stress the relationships can give you.

It's just that I guess, you only have one mind and body to offer.