rossi Posted March 6, 2006 Posted March 6, 2006 i don't know how to explain this, well, last night while having sex with my husband, it looks like he tried to make anal sex with me. it was really painful in that moment. he did not asked before for it, we never try it before. It looks to me like he did it with the OW, we never talk about it. It looks like if it was an accident during the act. Does any of you practiced this type of sex with MM.
Blind Illusion Posted March 6, 2006 Posted March 6, 2006 I'm not sure I am reading this correctly; is the appearance of something different in the bedroom the reason that you think an OW exists or existed?. Or do you know this for other reasons. I'm not sure, that anal sex is something of an "other Woman" forte however. Some other woman have, some haven't, just like some wives enjoy this and others don't. Maybe he just wanted to try something new but was scared of your reaction, hence "the accident". Talk to him about it though. If you decide that this is something you want to try, it's best you talk and plan for this with creams or lubrication so it will be less painful that the "accidental insertion"
newbby Posted March 6, 2006 Posted March 6, 2006 rossi, you need to stop assuming that all ow are exactly the same and all affair sex is the same, as your h's. you also need to communicate with your h about sex, what you both like/dislike or would like to try.
scarletletter Posted March 6, 2006 Posted March 6, 2006 I don't do ANYTHING that I don't want to do!! Many married couples have anal sex. Maybe its just something he wants to try with you.
Guest Posted March 6, 2006 Posted March 6, 2006 it looks like it was an accident, because he knows it really hurt, i think, as far as i know you need practice and a lot of lubri, in order to do this ,we both were drinking and i told him "all yours" maybe he though he could do it witout any preparation.
Ladylay Posted March 6, 2006 Posted March 6, 2006 i don't know how to explain this, well, last night while having sex with my husband, it looks like he tried to make anal sex with me. it was really painful in that moment. he did not asked before for it, we never try it before. It looks to me like he did it with the OW, we never talk about it. It looks like if it was an accident during the act. Does any of you practiced this type of sex with MM. Anal sex is painful . It is okay from time to time, but please make sure you are both bathed & use lubrication. Why do you think the O.W. would give him that? I am not an other woman btw. They are human beings & also have sexual preferences. Even Prostitutes state if they give anal or not. Maybe he wanted to try something new felt it was pre-meditated to discuss.
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