I sometimes wonder if she needs more space but just doesn't know how to express herself

[edmandu1212]

Ok so im only 17 so obviously I have never really had a serious relationship. But I met this girl in one of my classes a little over a month ago and we really "connected" well. Most girls I know aren't nearly as deep and "real" as her, shes an awesome person. So we would constantly talk as friends and I hung out with her a few times just as friends. I quickly fell in love with her, and im sure that sounds so naive but I have never ever felt this way about a girl in my life, I can't stop thinking about her, I always wonder if shes thinking about me as much as I am with her.

 

So when we first started hanging out we were talking really well and making each other laugh and it was going all well. But then sometimes I would hang out with her and she would seem so uninterested in me that I would just be confused. Eventually we made out a couple times which sort of suprised me because sometimes it really seemed like she liked me and other times it seems like she didn't. And I just am confused because I am ALWAYS the one to call her and we hang out, I always initiate the conversations and everything and we've been hanging out everyday and it just seems like were not getting along as well as we used to.

 

I haven't "hooked" up with her in a while and I wonder whether or not she still likes me, because she never hesitates to say no when I ask her if she wants to hang out but then when we do hang out 80% of the time she just seems bored, and doesn't talk to me like she used to. Do you think this is happening just because I'm trying to be with her too much. Or do you thing she doens't like me as much as I like her or do you think im just overreacting to everything?

 

I sometimes wonder if she needs more space but just doens't know how to express herself, Im just really confused because I really want this to work out because I have strong feelings for her. And I know that at one point she had really strong feelings for me just by the way we talked to each other but I just don't feel that connection as much anymore. Any comments on the situation would be apreciated.

[yawhatever]

maybe you act differently around her now without even ralizing it?

 

Sounds a bit wierd, she would never talk to you unless you started to talk to her? Test it and see how long she wont talk to you, then call her after sometime and ask her what is happening..

[MadDog]

It sounds like in the beginning you two were having fun but you've gotten so caught up in obsessing about whether she's into you to, the way you act around her has changed. She might feel the awkwardness and is shying away as a result. She's probably just not ready for anything serious right now so if you kind of give up on that for a while and just have a good time, you'll be much better off.

 

MD