Prettyinblack Posted March 4, 2006 Posted March 4, 2006 My ex and i broke up during Christmas week after a four year relationship that ended pretty badly. I found out he was cheating. He works in a music store that I have done business in for 20 years and I went in last week on his day off and I know alot of the guys that work in there. One in particular, "mike", and I have E-mailed jokes back and forth for about a year or so and I was chatting with him when I went into the store and now, he is calling me all the time. THis guy is a 'little strange', to say the least, highly intelligent, but weird. SO he calls me 4 times without leaving a message, I don't return the calls and then he finally leaves a message saying " you are either never home or don't pick up......" Click. ANd with attitude. I e-mailed him asking "was that you who left me that nasty message the other night?" It really sounded quite rude and arrogant. The next message came last night and he said " Oh, was that a rude message?" Click. It's kind of creepy. He got my found number, I'm assuming, from my account info at my exes store and I never gave him permission to call me or even hinted that I was interested in him.. I was just nice and friendly. I want to leave my ex a message when he isn't home asking him to tell the a**h*** he works with to stop calling me.....jeez......I feel like a party favour getting passed around! (Oh.........part of reason to call my ex is to piss him off......he would be if he knew that 'Mike" was calling me......they have worked together for 18 years. Wadda you guys think??????
lindya Posted March 4, 2006 Posted March 4, 2006 (Oh.........part of reason to call my ex is to piss him off......he would be if he knew that 'Mike" was calling me......they have worked together for 18 years. Wadda you guys think?????? I guessed that before you said it I don't think you should ever let contact your ex to let them know what you're up to, who's calling you, who's not calling you...or, indeed, anything whatsoever about your life. If you happen to bump into your ex, there's nothing to stop you from casually asking if Mike's okay - it's just that he's been calling you and getting pissed off about you not being in. Then laugh in an "I've brushed it off already" sort of way. I definitely wouldn't, however, contact your ex specifically to tell him about this, though. He'll just assume you're doing it because you're hot for his bod and want an excuse to call him.
dr strangelove Posted March 4, 2006 Posted March 4, 2006 Not that this has much to with your ex, more of an observation of intelligence and how people act. Depending on the more intelligent you are sometimes this type lacks social skills, although he does deal with the public. Intelligence is all relative, maybe he is just very knowledgeable on one subject and that is as far as it goes. Intelligence can be thought of a kind of sliding scale, usually the more stupid and at higer end the scale your social skills suffer, in fact some people become more socipathic. In any case wish to call your ex and make him.. jealous? ya smmoth move, my ex played this card on me more then a few times. I think the real test would be actually dating the strange lad.
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