Thanks Posted March 4, 2006 Posted March 4, 2006 My ex-bf is changing all of a sudden... New clothes, piercings, new hairstyles... When we were together, he used to talk about wanting to do all these things, but for some reason he never got around to it. I agreed with him sometimes. Sometimes I wanted to do those things too, sometimes I didnt like the idea. But now that he's done them, I dont feel good. I'm not sure if its jealousy or something else, but I feel sick. What's goin on? Thanks.
Tony T Posted March 4, 2006 Posted March 4, 2006 Hey, people change. They are constantly evolving. If they aren't, they're dead. Get used to it. This may just be a phase. Let the poor kid do his growing up stuff. Thank your lucky stars you didn't marry the guy. Now go find somebody who is more stable and more your style. A guy who is slightly older and more settled might be a better bet. Don't blame your guy. Apparently he gave you lots of warnings about what he liked. Give him lots of credit for his honesty. Cut his some slack and let him mature...but it could take years. You seem to know who you are and the direction you want to go in. This is not the guy for you, at least not for the next few years anyway. Good luck in your quest for meeting somebody who is sane, stable, settled and rational. I remember meeting one of those a few years ago in Gary, Indiana...haha!
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