markie2269 Posted March 3, 2006 Posted March 3, 2006 Ive been emailing this beautiful girl back and fourth for about 2 in a half weeks now weve both exchanged pictures i send a email, she sends one, but my problem is I seem like iam trying to get to know her alot more my mail to her is long and sweet hers is short and polite, she says she is really shy thats why she hasent called me on the phone and she gets nervous, ive pretty much told her all about me that you can tell someone over the internet without getting to tired or at least typing cramps, and then today she sends a message and in the message she says "tell me about your self again"??????????? what the h_ll, i thought weve been doing this get to know each other thing for some time now , and then she says maybe we can cath a movie or a drink some time ?????? what I thought she still needed a whole recap on my bio, what do i do do I not be so open and be short and polte too or do i keep on full steam ahead because i really like this girl PLEASE CAN SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME GOOD ADVIVE THANK YOU. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/images/red/buttons/quote.gif :love: :love:
whichwayisup Posted March 3, 2006 Posted March 3, 2006 Seems this girl IS either shy or not sure what she wants. How old are you two? I think you need to be completely honest with her. Tell her that you've shared alot about yourself and even though right now you two are yakking online SHE has to put more effort in, otherwise it won't work out. You can only get to know someone online to a certain extent - IF a real life friendship/ or boyfriend/girlfriend situation is going to happen, you two HAVE to take it offline. Hope this helps.
blind_otter Posted March 3, 2006 Posted March 3, 2006 IME she's avoiding meeting you because she's not serious about starting anything up.
bluechocolate Posted March 3, 2006 Posted March 3, 2006 .....and this business re: "tell me about yourself again". My first thought was, she's communicating with several people so can't keep track. Lower your expectations, big time.
Hungryhorse Posted March 3, 2006 Posted March 3, 2006 Hiya, was wondering if you have given her a call or asked her out, there is a limit to how much you can tell someone you don't know about yourself by email. I think there is probably little more she can tell you via email before she gets to know you which is why you are going over the same ground. She is probably waiting for you to phone for a chat and ask her to something. I would ask for her number in your next email, ask when she is free to call and then ask her to something, if she gives you vague answers about being busy etc etc you have probably come to the end for the road but as it is an online thing you have very little to lose and everything to gain. I would move this thing on from email to phone.
prfrogkisser Posted March 3, 2006 Posted March 3, 2006 .....and this business re: "tell me about yourself again". My first thought was, she's communicating with several people so can't keep track. Lower your expectations, big time. I have to totally agree with bluechocolate. When i chat with different people is so difficult to remember all details but then again if you really like somone something they stated has to stand out so they remember you. To me its seems she is just playing the field. If she was really interested and into you she would find a way to let you know she wants more. Always keep your options open. Never settle for less. Good Luck!!!!!
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