PlentyLV007 Posted March 2, 2006 Posted March 2, 2006 I'm going to vent here for a second or two! Why do most people that make mistakes think that saying "Im Sorry" makes everything okay and go away...!? My theory on "I'm Sorrys" is to make that person who made the mistake feel better like, released from guilt from their poor judgment for the time they made their mistake. I'm sorry is a word vomit. It's so over used and not meant when used most of the time. I hate it. I've used it but I try not to. A person can make you feel so crapy one minute and then months later, they have an ephiphany and think...let me tell her I'm sorry!!!! I'm upset because a friend that chose to hurt a friendship over a girl who he didn't even know he loved or not....yet he insulted me and be-littled me due to his problems with his love. Now weeks later that his relationship is crap and over he calls and says..."I'm sorry". I'm so frustrated because it's not the first time but, I'm definetly making it the last time for him to think that's it's okay to say "I'm sorry". He says...I feel better for saying so.....yeah....I'm happy for him!!!! His "FEELS" better!!!! SELFISH!!!!
whichwayisup Posted March 2, 2006 Posted March 2, 2006 After saying I'm sorry...The rest has to be followed up by actions. To make it right again. Otherwise saying sorry is a cop out. Good rant though! I hope you feel better getting this stuff out. You have every right to feel the way you DO! So, keep on ranting!!
Walk Posted March 2, 2006 Posted March 2, 2006 Flat out tell him that you do not accept his apology. Accepting it lets him off the hook, and allows him to believe that all is okay now. Why wouldn't he continue to act this way, if you imply all he has to do is say sorry weeks down the road. You could let him know his apology is unacceptable, and isn't going to cut it. It would take his "I feel better now" back from him. I read your other posts though about this jerk... I think he'd probably just think you were the b**tch, and then blame it all on you, so it probably wouldn't matter either way.
Sassy Posted March 2, 2006 Posted March 2, 2006 You know i have often wondered this as well. Saying you sorry is great but actions speaks louder than words!
Author PlentyLV007 Posted March 2, 2006 Author Posted March 2, 2006 I read your other posts though about this jerk... I think he'd probably just think you were the b**tch, and then blame it all on you, so it probably wouldn't matter either way. EXACTLY...! He doesn't deal well with anything that I say against his say. He just goes off and insults me and calls me names. Which BTW he never has until this last time. It was horrible. I just can't talk to him and hear those things again! All I have to say is Karma is a B!@^$! Then again I wonder why he lost his girl, his job and his friends. I mean I wouldn't wish that on nobody but I do believe very much in karma and I think everything bad/or good that you do to people will definetly come back. =) I know he will call me until he hears me say okay....or as I always say S*#% happens. Usually I let things sly cause I'm not his wife or his girl but, this time was just too much. I'm not going to allow someone to insult me and say "oppos...I'm sorry". NOPE (nodding head) I have never treated anybody that way and I never will. =) Well unless...... =)
noclobber Posted March 2, 2006 Posted March 2, 2006 do you have any idea why he is actually angry with you?
Author PlentyLV007 Posted March 2, 2006 Author Posted March 2, 2006 do you have any idea why he is actually angry with you? He's angry with me because I told him to let me be after that one incident...remember??? When I went to go see him and then he told me to leave because he's girlfriend was coming!? Then he called me saying that he's not sorry for asking me to leave....then that's when I told him let me be....then he cursed me out...insulted me, called me names, be-littled me, and so on..... Now over 2 weeks later he says "sorry". That he feels better for apologizing...what scmuck!!! A load of crock!!!
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