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Then what's the problem?

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I just don't want to give it up so early.

He might think that i'm easy.

My girlfriends say that every changes after the guy gets it.

 

I also had something horrible happen to me about 7 years ago.

I met this guy online, we dated for a month, things were great.

Then after 1 month we slept together & he broke up with me the very

next day. He totally cut me off, he wouldn't answer my calls, no emails nothing. I regretted sleeping with him, it was a really hard time for me.

It was so hard to get over.

 

If a girl u met, & things were going great & she gave it up in 1 1/2 weeks

would u think any less of her??

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If a girl u met, & things were going great & she gave it up in 1 1/2 weeks would u think any less of her??

 

Nope. How can I hold something against her that I am willing to do myself?

 

Not all guys think the same way.

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True

but its different for a guy.

 

guys would do it on the first date & nothing would be wrong with that,

the girl gets the bad name not the guy.

 

But i guess if he's a jerk & will leave me after he gets it, he's going to whether i wait 2 weeks or 2 months.

 

thanks tan, u r ok

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I just don't want to give it up so early.

He might think that i'm easy.

My girlfriends say that every changes after the guy gets it.

 

I also had something horrible happen to me about 7 years ago.

I met this guy online, we dated for a month, things were great.

Then after 1 month we slept together & he broke up with me the very

next day. He totally cut me off, he wouldn't answer my calls, no emails nothing. I regretted sleeping with him, it was a really hard time for me.

It was so hard to get over.

 

If a girl u met, & things were going great & she gave it up in 1 1/2 weeks

would u think any less of her??

 

That guy was a jerk.

 

Any guy still clinging to the idea that a woman somehow spoils or something if she has sex is a neanderthal and not worth your time. I'm not saying go on a ho-spree, but just because that one guy was a jerk doesn't mean all men are, and "not giving it up too soon" sounds a lot like game playing to me, which I feel is a waste of time.

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"not giving it up too soon" sounds a lot like game playing to me, which I feel is a waste of time.

 

Exactly.

 

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Thanks guys

 

He just called me & was at the A&P. He's food shopping & is cooking me dinner tonight, how nice is that!! I think i found a really great one!!

 

OK so u r saying that there is nothing wrong with me giving it up to him after 1 1/2 weeks of dating huh? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm;)

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Go with how you feel....:o

because no matter what kind of advice you get here on LS.....you are the only one that can make yourself happy. U COME FIRST!

If you want to get some...get some!!!!

 

"I" honestly thing that 1 1/2 weeks is good if the attraction is getting hot and steamy....The longest I've held off is a month. It's hard. If you like someone I don't c what the big deal is. You don't want to play games....

 

Ask yourself this.....R u ready? Do "you" want to...? how do you feel about giving it up after 1 1/2 weeks? Do "you" want to keep waiting?

Fact is....guys will always be ready,...the first night...they are ready....so no matter how long you hold out....they are ready.

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I think if you have a connection with this guy and you feel you can trust him then go for it!!Life is too short he might be the one!!

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Nope. How can I hold something against her that I am willing to do myself?

 

Not all guys think the same way.

 

HOLY MOLY, A REAL MAN! WOO HOO!!!

 

Thank you, tanbark. I wish there were more like you! :)

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3 hours, 47 minutes and 12 seconds or write it off as a waste of time.

 

Seriously, though, it depends solely on the people involved and there are no rules to human relationships.

 

In general, rushes to relationship aren't usually a good idea.

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28 days was the longest for me (yes exactly 28 days haha) but not on purpose. I think that if you want to and feel comfortable in doing so then you should just go for it!

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