Trizb84 Posted March 1, 2006 Posted March 1, 2006 my story is a pretty typical OW tale. 8 month relationship with this guy, started out as friends, thought we were totally honest with eachother (as i told him about my current 5 yr b/f). but only weeks ago did i find out he is currently married. The thing that bothers me the most, is looking back at all those times that he "suddenly had to go", or was very protective of his cell-phone, the tux in his closet lol, the things that should of been a red flag. i guess thats karma for ya, i think that was a really good slap in the face. So why am i having so much trouble trying to end it w/ this guy?
scarletletter Posted March 1, 2006 Posted March 1, 2006 That really sucks that he didn't tell you up front that he was married. He probably thought you wouldn't go through with the relationship if he did. Very sad and very good reason to tell him to take a hike. I do see a MM man but I knew what I was getting into up front...and still made the choice.
Walking away Posted March 1, 2006 Posted March 1, 2006 My MM didn't tell me he was married at first, either. He told me he knew that I wouldn't give him the time of day if I knew the truth at the beginning. That was absolutely the truth....Anyway, I was emotionally involved when I found out. Still walking away, even though it is extremely hard to make the final break. It is hard to let go of the emotions....He is still pursuing me. We have been "together" for six months...It is hard to just shut off the emotions, as I have found. Wish I could be of more help....
Seen_It_All Posted March 4, 2006 Posted March 4, 2006 Seriously - did you make a pact with the Devil to totally throw away your pride, integrity, and self respect when you chose to CONTINUE being involved with these lying predators after you found out they'd LIED to you? The second these lying rats told you they were married (or did you have to find out some other way?) you ceased to be victims and you're now volunteers. The message you're sending these lying predators is that you're willing to let them lie to you, use you, and manipulate you. Love has NOTHING to do with it. Where's your pride???
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