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ok so i've been with my guy for just over a year and we've been really close and everythings been great, but lately we've been getting bored, not with each other but just with what we do. (which to be honest is not much)

 

We see eachother enough and im very happy in this realationship, and i think he is too. But lately, all we do when we see eachother is play fight or watch TV. Neither of us have any money to go out so we jsut sit around eachothers places doing nothing.

 

This is getting really boring. And i dont want him to feel this too badly because im really paranoid he'll assocaite seeing me with sitting around being bored, then he wont see me and we'll end up breaking up. So thats the bulk of the problem, but now a minor one, on Friday night im trying to plan a perfect night in for me and him, candle-lit dinner and everything, (because im having a party the next day, and want him to myself for a bit too) but how do i prevent the perfect night in from becoming boring?

 

Please help.

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ok so i've been with my guy for just over a year and we've been really close and everythings been great, but lately we've been getting bored, not with each other but just with what we do. (which to be honest is not much)

 

We see eachother enough and im very happy in this realationship, and i think he is too. But lately, all we do when we see eachother is play fight or watch TV. Neither of us have any money to go out so we jsut sit around eachothers places doing nothing.

 

This is getting really boring. And i dont want him to feel this too badly because im really paranoid he'll assocaite seeing me with sitting around being bored, then he wont see me and we'll end up breaking up. So thats the bulk of the problem, but now a minor one, on Friday night im trying to plan a perfect night in for me and him, candle-lit dinner and everything, (because im having a party the next day, and want him to myself for a bit too) but how do i prevent the perfect night in from becoming boring?

 

Please help.

 

 

Try some game nights, play cards, board games, walk in the park, those actitivies don't take to much money. Maybe organize some card nights with friends?

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I didn't see *sex* mentionned so I can completely understand why the relationship is *boring*. :p

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