Numbofhim Posted March 1, 2006 Posted March 1, 2006 If I had an affair, and was honestly sorry and wantedmy marriage, then I would walk on water to make my spouse happy. I would give up my secrets, lies, and anything else he asked from me. It would not bother me one bit if he were to check my phone, purse, bills, car, whatever it took. So, why is it when I do ask about, or want to check up on these things he gets so mad! Then, when I do check things, everything is fine, nothing hidden. I understand not wanting to be a prison inmate, but shouldnt he expect some sort of loss of privacy, becuase of what he did? Now I feel hurt again, because I am the "bad guy" if I dont trust him. Its only been a few months, I cant just ignore it and let it go. He expects me forget it, move on, and never mention it again, always be happy, and never check up on him again, and trust him completly. Why is he acting this way? Where is his compassion/understanding in this area?
Walking away Posted March 1, 2006 Posted March 1, 2006 A really good old movie to watch that pertains to this very situation is "Heartburn." It stars Meryl Streep and Jack Nicholson. I think anyone who has been cheated on can related to this, I think, great movie.
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