Cappe Posted March 1, 2006 Posted March 1, 2006 Today I saw an old flame who I had been crazy about for a long while.And I beleive any "Could have been's" and "What if's" are finally done with. About 6 months ago I decided that No Contact would be the answer,those were a hard 6 months but had GREAT results.During those 6 Months I had decided that I should improve myself in every way I could,it would stregthen me and keep my mind off those "Days".No women to "numb" the pain just 6 months soley invested in me. It got a little shakey when I would see her about,I got flustered and the thoughts of her came rushing back.But I kept too it,telling myself "It has to be this way" Well it paid off and I beleive myself to be a bit more mature,stronger and most importantly happier.As I said I saw the girl today while out with a mate,I was in the car while she was waiting by the bank (where my friend had to go).This time however my mind didnt wonder to the old times,I wasn't as nervous as I used to be.I waited for my friend to come out the bank and we drove off,no second glance's,no "What if's",no more. Got too say thanks for all the Loveshacker's out there.
skeptik224 Posted March 1, 2006 Posted March 1, 2006 You give the rest of us hope - knowing that someday, we, too, will be as strong as you were yesterday. It took a strong person to not get involved with anyone else until you've healed. It's a shame more people don't do this. How are you supposed to grow if you don't take the time to "listen?" Many props to you, my friend. I hope one day I'll be in your shoes.
pandnh4 Posted March 1, 2006 Posted March 1, 2006 i remember that feeling of liberation from last year... after about 4-5 months following the breakup with my previous ex i finally felt *free* from the pain and self-torment... of course, new girls in my life sure helped alot... =) i'm looking forward to feeling that way again... although this past relationship was not even 8 months long and it's been just over 3 weeks since the breakup, it still hurts alot because i truly loved this girl and probably still do... i think for the most part i miss the companionship and sex but i'm also angry, jealous, and resentful towards her too...
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