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Hes starting to drift - do I act aloof?


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Forgive me if this is a little jumbled, I am confused right now.

 

BUT...

 

My SO and I recently got back together after seperating for the summer (his choice, to leave and come back). Things were good for a while and then lately I started to notice his attention becoming sparse with me.

 

He doesnt call nearly as much as he used to (or SMS for that matter) and when he does hes quick about it and seems distant.

 

I dont know how to react to this. Once I noticed it, things became even more apparent that he's acting funny. I dont know whats going on with him, but I sure dont want to push him away (again) by acting needy or desperate.

 

So, do I just stop calling him and wait for him to come to me? Do I wait for him to invite me out (usually its pretty even)? Should I be acting aloof and worry-free, or WHAT?!

 

Please help! We've been together for a couple of years and this change of attitude is causing for panic.

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If he is suddenly * too busy * to call you and is not spending time with you, :eek: I think you know what that means right ? He is creating space between you because he is no longer interested in the relationship and is planning on ending it soon.

 

Just be prepared.

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