David18 Posted February 28, 2006 Posted February 28, 2006 Ok, here it goes... i broke up with my ex about a week ago.. acouple days after we broke up she found out i was back together with my ex.. i always loved my ex and i broke up with her to be back with my ex. well i come home one morning and try to log into my Email.. MSN messenger. i find that she changed the PW... well she didnt but she told her friend what my PW was and changed it. i had to threaten them about reporting them. then they finally changed it back. and now she knows im with my old ex again.. shes been calling my current girlfriend sister phone and leaving voicemails saying your sister better watch her back.. and that a baby is on the way... when we were together she would try to say she always felt sick like she was pregnant.. but to find out she never was... everytime i broke up with her she would say she was pregnant to get me back... now shes trying to say that shes pregnant so that my current girlfriend will leave me. the crazy ex was threaten to kill her so she better watch her back and ****.. i know the girl she can't fight. anyways.. me and my girlfriend that im with now.. were going out for 5 months befor i even met this crazy girl. anyways were suppose to move up to alabama.. so we can start our new life together.. but this girl is leaving voicemail on her sister phone saying watch her back and **** and starting lies about her being pregnant. and i dont want to call or talk to her shouldn't i just leave cause i know 100% thats shes not pregnant cause i was always always safe and wore protection (and know where wasnt any wholes or tears in the condoms) i just wanna leave and get away from this crazy girl. and my girlfriend knows about this crazy girl.. and she knows whats going on and wants to fight her.. but told her to leave it alone and shes going too.. but i just dont want to be in contact with my ex anymore.. shes crazy as hell. shouldn't i just leave and not contact her i knows she bluffin about being pregnant she just dont want me to be with the one i love.
clynn Posted March 1, 2006 Posted March 1, 2006 Whoah. She does sound crazy. Get a restraining order against her. Moving to Alabama is a good idea. And if you are breaking up with one girl to get together or back together with another girl............you should always just be upfront and tell them that right off. Then you can let them be crazy in front of you or whatever. The girl will always find out later anyhow, and is that much more likely to be crazy.
dr strangelove Posted March 4, 2006 Posted March 4, 2006 My take If you have no intention of ever having anything to do with this woman (ie reconcile) There is no reason to put up with this behaviour and for that matter she will only continue unless she cannot find you/contact you or the authorities are called in. Now you have to understand the motive behind the insane behaviour. The woman had deep feelings for you and then you parted ways and it has hurt her. I know this because my ex acted insane at times, and it was explained to me by a counsellor she did this because she was hurt. I had thought she was just being an a**h***. Options, 1) break contact, 2) meet with her and have a talk with her 3) call police.. it seems to me you are either somewhat concerned for her, feel guilty or are concerned that she might not be bluffing about the baby.
clandestinidad Posted March 4, 2006 Posted March 4, 2006 Here's a thought....the girlfriends sister could change her number so she doesnt get anymore calls from the ex Perhaps the rest of you should do the same
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