love2love Posted February 28, 2006 Posted February 28, 2006 So I have been seeing this guy for a month and a half. Everything is wonderful, we spend like 5 days a week together..he's always taking me to every event he goes to ...and keeps me in mind when making plans every day..treats me like a princess basically..Well about 2 weeks ago I asked him am I his girlfriend and he said that he takes boyfriends and girlfirend thing very seriously and he wants to take it slow because he beleives in long term monogomous relationships but that he doesn't want to date anyone else ...So I kid around and was like yay I am a free agent and can date others though at this point i don't want to .... so I kind of thought we were exclusive but just without the title. Things continue to be great.. he even invites me to church to meet his congregation and will do things like go shopping with my girlfirends and I just so he can make me happy..Well his work has started picking up. He has a time demanding job and goes on projects all the time and so he told me to prepare for it being tough and says he won't be able to be with me all the time anymore. I tell him it will be roguh when he leaves for months on end but I will see. Well last night after I gave him some lecture about him letting work take over his life and that I won't be taken for granted when he left me hanging for 15 minutes not knowing where he had ran off to because he was talking to a project manager about closing a deal..( we were in a restraunt). When he took me home he felt bad for doing so and I was like you could have told me. Instead I thought something bad had happened to you in the bathroom and stuff.. anyways so we are both in bed together after he has made me dinner and things are good again and I ask him what he relly thinks about us...He tells me it's hard for him to get to know the real me because I put an act up all the time...I tell him what act? And he doesn't go into specifics and at one point he gets flustered and says sometimes you speak with an english accent like Madonna and it seems fake. I am like well my friends and I do it for fun and it's really a small part of who I am it is getting petty and I left and told him I thought he was not telling me thr truth . I don't know why he thinks I act fake and I am baffled that things can be so good and this happens. Is he trying to sabatage things because he's scared I don't have real feelings for him and might leave when the going gets tough? I tink maybe that's what he means by me being fake. Anyone ever experience anything like this? Well it's been a day and no call. I called him and hung up so he knows I called but he has not called. Should I call him since I was the one to walk out on him? Please help and thanks.
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