lost in colorado Posted February 28, 2006 Posted February 28, 2006 Hey everyone, I posted last month about my divorce,(2 months) to make long story short im totally still in love with my ex wife but now she has a boyfriend(been together for 1 month she says she in love). Since i found out i have decided to start dating now i think im out of control in the past month i have had 15 different sexual encounter i know that all im doing is trying to replace my ex wife i dont even care about these women all i care about is not being alone. Is this part of healing from a divorce. I can tell you NC doesn't work it pushed her to another man and pushed me to view women as a object. Im a really nice guy but i cant be alone anymore has anyone ever gone threw this. Now that she knows that ive been dating its been making her very mean she texts me some bad sh*t. Calls me a male sl*t and everything you can imigine to make me feel like sh*t. She also made a comment that i was more attractive when i had a average body then what i loke like now lost 10lb and added more lean muscle to my body change hair cut. I just need advice on what im doing is right or wrong and what i should be doing at this time in my life.
Citizen Erased Posted February 28, 2006 Posted February 28, 2006 Honey, stop sleeping around with all of those women. It is not nice to them and I bet has not made you feel one bit better! Just because she has moved on doesn't mean that you have to get out there and start sleeping with everything that walks. What if you get someone pregnant, or they are carrying an STD? It is not the way to get over someone so I recommend you stop. Go to counselling, purge your life of all of her material possessions, and start the healing process without all of the sex. Women are not objects so stop treating them as such Other than that, Good luck to you
fallenheart45 Posted February 28, 2006 Posted February 28, 2006 When she texts you "male slut"! She is just jealous....don't let it even phase you...
Author lost in colorado Posted February 28, 2006 Author Posted February 28, 2006 thanks for the advice people
golfalot Posted February 28, 2006 Posted February 28, 2006 Here is what you should do. You need to get out there and tackle drunk biatches. Knock out 20, 30 of those hood rats. Then move on to a higher class of lady. Kidding of course. I went through a period like yours after my divorce. For some reason I lost respect for women and just used them for personal pleasure. It's a short term solution for a long term problem. The thing that worked for me was to slow down, and look at what I was doing from an "outside" view. When I did that, I was disgusted. I had turned into what I had always despised. Good luck to you
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