Beachgrl486 Posted February 27, 2006 Posted February 27, 2006 There is this guy I have been friends with my whole life. Kind of grew up together. He is a great guy. Last year he really started to like me and so we started dating. I never really let myself get to attached. I I broke up with him this past fall after dating for about 5 months or so. He was upset with me for it because we had a great relationship. I just didnt know what I wanted. Well since we broke up in Oct or so he has been there for me and we have actually been friends. We have done out own things but talked every now and then. Well for Valentines Day he sent me flowers and we started kind of dating again. He asked last week if I really wanted to be with him for a long time. He sent me a text message the other day that said "you are so beautiful" he is a really good person. On Wednesday night he went out with my brother for the night and was supposed to make it any early night and come stay with me. Well he didn't. He called but I was already asleep. I kind of got upset with him the next day and ever since then he has not acted the same. He didnt understand why I got so mad. Which he is right. I overreacted big time. Nothing like this has ever happened before. We never fought or anything. I never cared what he did. Well he came over Saturday and we talked and he needs sometime to think. He doesnt want to lose me he says. He says it has nothing to do with me. He says he doesnt know what is wrong and that his friends have even said he hasnt been himself. I dont understand. It is so hard to not call or anything but I know I cant. I know he loves me I just feel something isnt right. I dont know. But as of now we are not together and I just need some advice. Please. Thank You
SuperMonk Posted February 27, 2006 Posted February 27, 2006 Hmm, you broke up with him. What'd you expect him to act or see you now because of that. You females must understand male logic. When you do wrong with a male, you must show through actions that you will be a better person. But you females think like the way you do, just make a couple phone calls, act your usual ways and expect the male to heed your call. No, you must change the way you think and do it our way. Cook for us, make the moves, setup dates. That is how men think, try to think of us a little more. A good woman will actively seek our presence to be good in our presence - A bad woman will just be idle and expect the world giveth to them.
SmoochieFace Posted February 27, 2006 Posted February 27, 2006 What kind of a guy is gonna *be there* for someone who broke up with him in the first place?
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