jennifer1983 Posted February 27, 2006 Posted February 27, 2006 Well to shorten this up here is the situation that is before me...please give me your opinion as it will be greatly appreciated... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t82740/ The link is explaining what happened between my ex and how he started seeing this girl a few days after we broke up...I get a call yesterday from him saying that being with that girl made him realize I was what he wanted...I dunno how to take that I mean part of me says thats a load of bs but I have heard people do that before and genuinely mean it. Anyway, I said well you know the problems we had before....what makes you think that they are going to be any different...he responded by saying that we have never spent this much time apart before and he realizes now that the things he thought were so important to him really arent....and he realizes his mistakes... I am so confused by this...I dont know what to do. I told him I needed time to think about things.....
Outcast Posted February 27, 2006 Posted February 27, 2006 Sometimes people have to do stupid things before they wise up. Him dumping you was the stupid thing. He seems to have wised up as a result. You can give him another try if you love him very much. Yes, you might get hurt again however people recover from hurt and if the alternative is losing someone important to you it may be worth taking the risk.
zarathustra Posted February 27, 2006 Posted February 27, 2006 Does your heart tell you that you can trust him? What do you think he needs to do in order to prove to you that he won't stray again? Is he willing to work on the issues you both had about the relationship before he left? There's a lot of questions that you need to ask him and ask yourself prior to getting to the point of making a decision. Some people leave a relationship for another person just for the pure fact that they are jerks... some people leave as its a symptom of problems in the relationship. One of my exes left me each time he made a commitment to me. After several times, I realized he has issues with commitment (commitment-phobic). Lucky me!
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