smile Posted February 27, 2006 Posted February 27, 2006 I hung out with this boy last wednesday. I had a good time with his friends and they all enjoyed my company. Towards the end of the night the guy got cuddly and sweet. I took him home (to my place) and he layed on the bed and cuddled with me. We slept together holding eachother all night. He was cuddly and kissy. We held hands while we slept, all the sweet stuff. We hadnt seen eachother in 2 weeks and he seemed very jealous when I brought up the names of boys I had been hanging out with. All friends. And since wednesday , nothing. I sent him an email saying how much fun I had with his friends and I saw him online once.But he was in a rush. He apologized profusely but he had to go. We have been trying to be friends so he can get to know me better because he says he wants a relationship with me. I figured I aced the friends test, but he didnt even mention anything about that. He hasnt answered my msg or anything. Am I being paraniod? I am tired of ALWAYS being the one doing the inviting. I asked him to hang out wednesday and he said ok but then decided we should go to his friends house and hang out. So we did. But for a guy who wants to get to know me better, he sure isnt making much of an effort. I like him but this is getting kind of old. He is the kind of guy I want, and it used to be very clear that he wanted me. But lately it feels like out of sight out of mind. Do I wait for him to offer to hang out , or do I offer again? Do boys like to be asked, or do they like to do the chasing? Is this what happens when they stop feeling what they felt about you? Or is this what happens when their feelings scare them? I know my emotions are all over the place... but I just dont know the dating rules here. How much time together is too much time together?
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