flowerfairy142 Posted February 26, 2006 Posted February 26, 2006 My boyfriend's sister hates me. I've been going strong with the man of my dreams for 6 years now...we're extemely close and his family also adores me. His adopted sister has never really liked me and now she's even said that she does not want the likes of me in her family and not to be so confident about ever joining this family because things "can quickly change...and I'll leave it at that". She's always been an extremely difficult person to get along with, even though I've really tried my best. We sort of got along for a few years but after trying to bond by going out clubbing a few months ago and later telling her mom that she got "drunk" on me, it pissed her off SO MUCH that she went all out on me and started calling me these horrid things and well, the extreme hatred began. I know it was wrong on my part to tell her mom about the events of the evening like that and even though I've apologized to this girl, she will have none of it and says that I "f*cked up big time, you stupid c*nt" and that she's a one chance person, etc etc. (I recently emailed her an apology and this is the answer I get) At this point I don't care about mending our relationship...the only thing that really concerns me is if she can really turn the whole family against me like she said she could. My boyfriend adores me and so does his family so I know it's kind of absurd to think that way...but then again, I am scared of the unknown and think that one spoiled apple can ruin the whole bunch. Should I be concerned? How should I act around this girl? (I see her about once a week for Sunday dinner) My boyfriend tells me to stop acting like 2nd graders and being immature (she's 19 and I just turned 23) and that time will mend things, because she's apparently still very angry at me. I am definately NOT willing to let go of this relationship to my soulmate that we both have worked so hard to achieve and he doesn't either. HELP!! Please, I don't know where to turn to. Any advice will be ETERNALLY APPRECIATED!!!!!
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