David18 Posted February 26, 2006 Posted February 26, 2006 Well just got back with my girlfriend. we were engaged befor. but then we broke up.. so we're are moving 3 hours away and living together. and i asked her to marry me. and we wanna get married at the court house right when we get moved. but i have a question.. since we're gonna marry right away (right when we get there at the court house) what kind of rings should i get.. do i get engagement rings.. or real Wedding rings? i have our old set of our engagment but wanna get some new ones. but really lost on what to get.. when i go shop for them not sure if we're getting married right away if i should get a band for me and a ring for her if it should be Engagement or Wedding ring?
Curmudgeon Posted February 26, 2006 Posted February 26, 2006 Since you ended your subject, "Getting Married" with a question mark and say you're not sure if you're getting married, I certainly wouldn't invest in ringsd or even approach the court house until you are sure and you're both fully committed. Marriage isn't for the faint of heart or the uncertain! It's not casual. It's not at which something to play. It's a serious undertaking and an awesome responsibility.
bab Posted February 26, 2006 Posted February 26, 2006 I agree with Curmudgeon, you need to make sure you are ready before even bothering to think about what rings. When you get all that figured out, just ask your STBW, I'm sure she'll have an opinion.
Author David18 Posted February 26, 2006 Author Posted February 26, 2006 Since you ended your subject, "Getting Married" with a question mark and say you're not sure if you're getting married, I certainly wouldn't invest in ringsd or even approach the court house until you are sure and you're both fully committed. Marriage isn't for the faint of heart or the uncertain! It's not casual. It's not at which something to play. It's a serious undertaking and an awesome responsibility. When i said "Getting Married?" im not uncertain im just saying im getting married as in what you guys think which rings i should get. im certain about wanting to get married.
Curmudgeon Posted February 26, 2006 Posted February 26, 2006 David, if 18 is your age, there should be no rush into a locked-in relationship, especially not marriage. You have a lifetime ahead of you. What's the rush? You still expressed uncertainty.
Author David18 Posted February 26, 2006 Author Posted February 26, 2006 just wanted my question answered is all..
clandestinidad Posted February 26, 2006 Posted February 26, 2006 Alright...your ring question then.... I dont see any point in getting another ring, or set of rings. That would be a big waste of money, and I strongly believe you two should be saving all the money you possibly can so that there arent huge financial issues in the future. You already gave her a ring/rings, right?? She should get that ring back, and that should be it. If she has an issue w/ wanting another ring, then that should show you that she has bad character, and you may want to rethink things.
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