serenastar Posted February 25, 2006 Posted February 25, 2006 When me and my guy broke up he told me his feeling werent going in the right direction. He also went on to say how he cant see his life with out me and can see us getting back together sometime sooon. I asked him if he is with anyone else and he said he wasn't. We had a good relationship;the only things that sucked about it was that we both didnt have the time and we live 45 mins away from each othere. So im asking for ur imput and thoughts.
alphamale Posted February 25, 2006 Posted February 25, 2006 When me and my guy broke up he told me his feeling werent going in the right direction. He also went on to say how he cant see his life with out me please read the above again and pay extra attention to bolded parts....it does not make sense and contradicts itself.
johan Posted February 25, 2006 Posted February 25, 2006 I'm sure he was being honest. I doubt he told you everything. He may not even understand it all well enough to say it. That would cause him to contradict himself. But that doesn't matter, because that's a common part of breaking up. It sucks and people aren't at their best when they do it. I usually try to speak from the perspective of my own feelings. I suggest you just try to trust that what he told you was the truth. The rest of it was just what people break up for everyday. Try to be at peace with it so you won't obsess.
Barby Posted February 25, 2006 Posted February 25, 2006 I would say that possibley he could have meant that he wasn't having the same romantic feelings for you as before but he can't see having having a life without you in it. Maybe he wants a friendship, a long lasting meaningful friendship with you instead of a romantic relationship???
RubixCube28 Posted February 25, 2006 Posted February 25, 2006 what guys say when they break up? what do they mean? well I'm just takeing a wild guess here but I think it means hes not intrested in you in the same way.. Prob just means he wants to be the best of friends..
clynn Posted February 26, 2006 Posted February 26, 2006 why would he say that he can see you guys getting back together sometime soon? Would he say that because it was hard for him to hurt your feelings and so he just said that to make the blow not as hard? Or did he say it beause he meant it? Will there be some circumstances changing in the future that would make the realtionshipp not as difficult (ie: will you be less busy? Will you be moving ? Or him?)
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