sazzya1987 Posted February 25, 2006 Posted February 25, 2006 Sorry for too many advice for online situations that I have but I would just like to understand some things to help control myself whilst online with my boyfriend. I am very sensative so that might be a reason why I get the way I do, I'm not sure, but if I could have other peoples experience or to know I am not alone it might help me out a little bit. When we talk online I get quite hurt when he doesn't say brb to me and alot of the time he is gone for quite a lnng time. I get very upset and insecure that he is ignoring me or doesn't consider my feelings and I often go offline and cry and he doesn't ring to see if I am ok which also really hurts because if he gets upset or angry whilst online and then goes offline I always try to get in contact with him any way possible. Alot of the time I feel like its just me chasing after him and I don't like chasing after guys alot of the time, I like a relationship to be equal and if it isn't equal it feels as though I am wasting my time. I don't know how to solve this matter, should I stay offline for a few days and see if he contacts me first? Or should I just stick up with whats happening and I'm just over reacting to something which shouldn't be a big deal since we know each other in person. He always said he would much rather have a non internet relationship and keep things to phone so I shall just wait for his phone calls? We both get on great in person but online it just seems so much diffrent and I don't know what else to do about it? I know this is a really silly pointless problem but I just get so emotional at something I can see is so small. Things will work out I'm sure.
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