thisisarandomperson Posted February 25, 2006 Posted February 25, 2006 Ok well me and this girl are having this LDR in england. Im 17 and she is soon to be 17. We've known each other for a over a year and we started properly going out recently. We've met a few times as well. She is a very sweet and nice girl, and her friends and family are very important to her. She isn't that intelligent though. I on the other hand (not trying to sound like i have a big ego), am an intelligent person. So the problems is, we tend to fall out whenever we talk on MSN. I guess it is down to me, as im not very good at articulating my feelings and tend to let my temper get the better of me and end up saying things i regret. Which then upsets her and we end up falling out. Although when we meet in real life we get on great and enjoy each others company. We used to text loads but she recently lost her xmas job so she can't afford to top up regularly. So recently we havent really had a chance to talk a lot, and she doesn't get to come on MSN a lot. Whenever she does nowadays, she takes forever to reply to me. She is busy surfing the web and talking to her friends, instead of talking to me properly. Whenever we have serious things to talk about she talks even less. So basically this makes me feel unloved, although she claims that she loves me a lot and i definitely love her. It feels like she doesnt give me enough attention, or as much as she should be giving. So this sort of contribute as to why we end up falling out. I also can't tell her how i feel properly cause she sometimes takes it the wrong way and ends up hardly speaking to me. Just like now, she is barely replying to me on MSN and i feel like giving up with this girl. So why am i like this? Why is this all happening? Do i call it quits? I need her attention and it just feels like i am now a bit of fun to her rather than something serious. I dont know what to do as i love her a lot and i dont want to let her go.
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