Jackie Posted September 2, 2001 Posted September 2, 2001 I just proposed it to my boyfriend tonight and he said he needs more time to consider cuz it's big decision in life. Am I too aggressive (or cheap in a certain extent) to propose as I am a chick? What should I do now? I love him very very much and I really want to spend the rest of my life with him.
Tony T Posted September 2, 2001 Posted September 2, 2001 I think the idea of marriage is the sort of thing two people build up to over a period of time. If this guy didn't at least express a keen interest in being married to you at some point in time, he's the wrong guy. Getting married is something you've got to want to do more than anything. It's something a person should be excited about. The way you wrote your post, it didn't seem your guy was too keen on the idea. He may not be ready right now, in which case you'll need to wait. Or you may just not be the right person for him. You need to discuss this with him.
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