Coochie Posted February 24, 2006 Posted February 24, 2006 O.K - so we broke up last night, over the phone. It was so freakin' lame! After all your help the other day I resolved to be brave and communicate how I was feeling so I'd said (the previous evening) that I didn't want him coming over after I was asleep and waking me up for sex anymore. That it made me feel taken for granted & used and although I didn't have a problem with that 6 months ago, I did now. So last night he rang & it was a bit of an awkward conversation - I was pretty pissed. He was tired & said that as I didn't want him visiting late, he would just see me tomorrow. We said goodbye and then I thought, "No, fvuck this - I'm sick of it!" & rang him back to say as much and that I couldn't do it anymore. He said he just wanted time on his own to sit on his a$$, and that he'd tried to tell me that three weeks ago. (At which time, I wasn't pissed off, just sad, & he thought about it & decided that he didn't want to split up - I gave him the out ...) Anyway, upshot was that he said he "liked me a lot, I was a wonderful person, he loved me and one day we'd sit down & have a yap about it"!! Man, I'm mad! I don't believe that time is the major factor here - I just think that he's too damn spineless to admit that he doesn't love me anymore and is using his very full life as an excuse. I mean really, how much time does it take to let a very low maintenance gf know that you're thinking of her? A text takes 2 mins tops, buying a b-day present - 1/2 hr. So my question (now that that little rant is over ) is how does one go about the whole NC thing? Do I just ignore any ph calls (screen my calls) etc or if he calls (which he may not) let him know that that is what I'm doing? At least I'm busy (& fuming!!) so I don't have time to fall in a heap just yet & by the time I'm not busy, I'll hopefully have passed through most of the hurt.
Author Coochie Posted February 25, 2006 Author Posted February 25, 2006 Ok - help ... he rang this morning (fortunatly I was out!) to say gidday, see how I am, maybe talk to me later ... what do I do? Just ignore his message & screen my calls for the rest of the day? I don't want to play games here - I just have no experience with this & want to heal my heart and move on A.S.A.P ...?
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