pfeif216 Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 Hello, So I moved back into the city a couple of weeks ago to this great deal I found near my work/school. Of course my ex lives 3 blocks from where I moved to(I swear it was unintentional). I know many of you told me not to do it but I told myself I was not going to plan my life around him so I decided to take it. I actually have felt better about our breakup by facing my fears and moving on with my life even if he was only a couple of blocks away(and with his new partner). So anyway, the other day I was up all night doing a paper and was pretty sick w/ a fever and of course I ran into him on the subway. I am 10 yrs. younger than he is and his reasoning for breaking it off was b/c we werent on the same level in life)....anyway....It went pretty well I kept things brief...the idiot I am asked about his new s/o and he told me he was his age and they shared similar interests blah, blah....It didnt kill me, it actually made me feel a bit better b/c he was basically telling me that his new s/o were more on the same level than we were... So we left each other and i know i shouldnt have done it but i texted him that it was good to see him and how of course i run into him w/ a fever & 2 hrs of sleep....I KNOW i shouldnt have written that and I did and of course my friends are telling me it looks like i cared how i looked which shows that i still want him..blah, blah... I hate that I am fixated on this and I should just move and shouldnt care what he thinks...but i did...i just wanted to get that out and to get some feedback if possible....THANKS
UT_longhorn Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 don't beat yourself up over it. no biggie. as long as you handled yourself with dignity when you spoke, your text is insignificant. you care for him as a person. its natural. as long as you're not still having feelings of pain and longing...its all good.
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