BrokenMM Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 How hard is it to get over an emotional affair? My wife, of 15 years, was havig one with a married man she works with. She said it was nothing but friendship. I dont know, lots of phone calls during the day, found out they were text messenging and privite IMing together. I dont understand how just friends do that. I told her no more or I was leaving, so she promised. Now what I dont know, is how is this affecting her emotionaly? She understands she was wrong, but what did all this mean? I wonder, does the married man want her, and should I tell his poor neglected wife? My wife gets angry if I mention I will call the MM wife. I just basically want to know how hard it is to get over this type of affair? What is she thinking, what is the MM thinking?
Devildog Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 Are you sure it was just an emotional affair? Are you sure she isn't still seeing him? She might just be more careful about it now. It sounds like she is still trying to protect him. She doesn't want you saying anything so he doesn't get in trouble. Also, if his wife were to find out it would be twice as hard to keep other people in the dark. One thing to keep in mind about affairs, the person having the affair will not admit to anything more than they have to. And usually you need concrete evidence before they admit to anything. I doubt she is coming clean and telling you the full truth.
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