crim Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 Yes, talking with girls. Don't take me wrong, I do have many friends that are girl who I can talk to, but there is always a time when I don't know what to say and I go blank. Then there is silence. This happens talking face to face or chatting online. I am 17, and have only had 1 girlfriend 3 years ago. There is one girl that I am really attracted to. We have known each other since october and we have talked. Yes i've asked her about what she's into/hobbies/sports/interest. That was the easy part. Now im lost. It would be appreciated is someone could help. Thanks
kjcrimson3 Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 I want to here advice for this guy, too...I'm interested. Sorry for not helping.
Jeffrey Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 Talking is easy, just do it. Forget that she's a hottie and you want to kiss, just talk to her like you would any platonic friend, if things are going to be good, they'll be good and it will take care of itself.
Author crim Posted February 23, 2006 Author Posted February 23, 2006 I don't go blank because she is a hottie, its just after a certain period of time I dont know what to say. This happens with friends as well...
Author crim Posted February 24, 2006 Author Posted February 24, 2006 I respect girls, im not going to just go right in her face and say "hey lets make out". I know that if you talk to girls you will create a friendship and then if its possible you may be able to go further. I do really like this girl. But when we talk, there is an ocasional silence, and this bothers me. I somehow thing that she would pull away becuase there is not that communication.
kjcrimson3 Posted February 24, 2006 Posted February 24, 2006 Although, any period of silence you two may be encountering, as obviously awkward as it may be, may be lettering her know (indirectly) that you are interested in her, and she the same to you. ...If there are moments of silence, it's probably because you both are slightly uncomfortable, and have some interest in each other, an interest you are clearly being very careful to not break.
Author crim Posted February 27, 2006 Author Posted February 27, 2006 I never thought about it that way. It could very well be that. Thank you
Guest Posted March 10, 2006 Posted March 10, 2006 i have an idea that im going to try for face to face talk because i have the same problem grab her hand or play with her physically somehow. Do something like rubbing her shoulders like a massage or play with her hair and ask her about her hair you could even do that while rubbing her shoulders.
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