Lishy Posted February 22, 2006 Posted February 22, 2006 So Mr Driveby contacted me out of the blue by IM I guess no contact does work, plus him seeing me walking up the road with a 19 year old hunk helped! (Purely platonic, that would be child abuse!) But he didnt know it was platonic! So he IMs me and asks how I am and what I have been up to. I kept it calm and cool and he asks about the young guy, asking if I took him to my bed - I tell him I still have him locked in my cupboard! I tell him about my weekend break coming up, he asks if its a dirty weekend and I say "Maybe" He says "Am I invited" I say NO! He tells me he remembers how it was being in bed with me, how wet I get and how I taste so nice, I say "So you think of that?" He said Yep, I change the subject He Tells me he will come around to my place and I say "Oh hold on ....... I can fit you in the 18th dec 2008" He laughs and says he is working that day! I was doing so well I was holding it together I felt fine Then he said he can remember me sliding up and down on his dick and I start sweating! I am so horny already and this just topped it for some mad reason - I sat thinking about him and when we was in bed ....... And then I did it! I told him I did not have my son the next night and that it would be cool to see him and to let me know - He says "cool ill let you know" I say goodbye and sign offline! WHY DID I SAY THAT? Cos I was horny dont quite cut it today! I still cant believe I said it! I was doing so well! So last night (the night I asked him around) I get in from work and I felt so tired - I did my housework and had a bath and fell asleep at 9.30. If he had called or texted to come around I would have put him off as my back was hurting too. BUT he didnt call!!!!!!!! I woke up this morning and went to my bag to get my mobile as I fell asleep before charging it, and he hadnt called! I wasnt upset about him not coming around but I am WELL upset that I didnt get a chance to turn him down! Now he wont even know that he got knocked back! NOW I feel like he just knocked me down all over again! Ok this is my question (I know the answer I just need it confirmed) Why did he contact me and then not follow it up? I know he is just after sex so why didnt he follow it up? I think that he was waiting for me to call him and chase him but I am still shocked he didnt follow it up! What do you all think? Ps - Obviously I still have a thing for him Alpha, I thought I was over it!
SuperMonk Posted February 22, 2006 Posted February 22, 2006 You should buy some C batteries cause he's got a long list of women to hit on.
Author Lishy Posted February 22, 2006 Author Posted February 22, 2006 No I need to get mains adapted!
noclobber Posted February 22, 2006 Posted February 22, 2006 Oh Lishy baby.... what's with this whole thing again? i thought your "No Contact" was going so well and was trying to get inspiration from you... when he IM'd you you shouldn't have replied.... why did you do it? i guess that's b'cos you still have some residual feelings... looking at his messages i have a feeling that he is trying to get you back BUT only for the sole purpose of sex. and you have already said that you want more and he flat out refused.. baby don't repeat this mistake again. if you can go this long with NC i am sure you can go further.... start it again and don't relapse! how it was being in bed with me, how wet I get and how I taste so nice damn i want you soooooooooo bad :love:
Author Lishy Posted February 23, 2006 Author Posted February 23, 2006 I KNOW Clobsy! I dont know why I answered! I looked at the IM sitting there like it was a ghost for about 2 minutes before I answered and I couldnt believe it was from him! I guess curiousity got the better of me. It is the first time he has IMd me! It was a shock! I will be prepared next time! I havnt called or text him since - The urge to tell him what I thought of him was immense but I overcame it!
whichwayisup Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 Looks like you'll have to wait till tomorrow to hear from alpha. Lish, don't beat up on yourself about it. You had a weak moment or two and he pegged in on that asap and took the lead. He tested the waters to see if you still were into him - A big ego feed...Yuk! Get back into NC and just let things be. It's okay that you still have feelings for him, time will take care of it all - Just don't ever let him know you still feel for him! It's not worth it! Plus, you know he's wrong for you!! Hang in there!
noclobber Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 I know how difficult it is to exercise control when the one you have feelings for tries to contact you! It sucks big time baby..... we both are in the same boat, aren't we? I just have a feeling that Mr.Driveby was more curious about that 19 yr old guy and as soon as he knew that you didn't sleep with him he was satisfied and went back to his old ways.... I am just guessing, I am not sure.
Author Lishy Posted February 23, 2006 Author Posted February 23, 2006 Wow thank you WWIU ...... That was so lovely
Author Lishy Posted February 23, 2006 Author Posted February 23, 2006 I think you are right as well Clobsy I asked him why he contacted me ..... He said "Seeing you with that young bloke"
noclobber Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 I think you are right as well Clobsy I asked him why he contacted me ..... He said "Seeing you with that young bloke" Start the war again Lishy and don't flag this time! If you need support we are all here for you
Author Lishy Posted February 23, 2006 Author Posted February 23, 2006 Start the war again Lishy and don't flag this time! If you need support we are all here for you Oh thank you Clobsy You must all be sick of this saga
Author Lishy Posted February 23, 2006 Author Posted February 23, 2006 Alpha's always right. Infuriating isnt it!
whichwayisup Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 Wow thank you WWIU ...... That was so lovely You're welcome! Alpha's always right. Yeah I read afew threads yesterday and about 4 people agreed with alpha, even RIO said that he was right about a thread he'd started waaaay back when. Freaky eh? Who would've thought?? OK alpha, your turn...I bumped up this thread to bring it to your attention! hehehe...
alphamale Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 Ps - Obviously I still have a thing for him Alpha, I thought I was over it! no shyt? the fact that you kept mentioning him in your posts was the give away see LISHY....if you don't care about someone or something you are indifferent. posting about a particular subject or person makes you not indifferent.
Author Lishy Posted February 23, 2006 Author Posted February 23, 2006 A good friend said to me yesterday that the opposite of love is not hate ........ It's indifference! How true that is My Ex H could jump through hoops of fire and I would not want him back .... He could walk along the road with 400 naked models and I would not care! Question Alpha ...... If he didnt care why did it bother him so much seeing me with a guy?
noclobber Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 Question Alpha ...... If he didnt care why did it bother him so much seeing me with a guy? One word => Jealousy! He doesn't want you back, he is just jealous that you got someone..
alphamale Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 A good friend said to me yesterday that the opposite of love is not hate ........ It's indifference! I said that LISHY....I've posted it many times on LS. That is where you read it, not from your "friend" :0 Question Alpha ...... If he didnt care why did it bother him so much seeing me with a guy? the male ego...he does not want you but he does not anyone else to be with you either...its a sick game that ever poor alpha has succumbed to before.
Author Lishy Posted February 23, 2006 Author Posted February 23, 2006 I know what you are saying Alpha and I have felt like that in the past too - But I have never felt like that with someone who I didnt like! I have sat and spoken to an ex and his new girlfriend all night and mostly spoke to the girl and I felt nothing! I think he is scared and doesnt know what he wants!
Mary3 Posted February 24, 2006 Posted February 24, 2006 I think its weird out of the blue he calls you and asks you if you miss sliding down his c*** and how wet you got. That sounds more like " Hey ,I want some booty, baby are you still interested and Oh, by the way , Who was that guy you were walking with yesterday ? " He just sounds like he wanted to know if you would give up the Poon tang for him . He got his answer. Hopefully you delete him and everything about him from your mind. Just remember : If sexing him is fine and you need to get laid then go for it and use him the way he's trying to use you. Its okay for us women to just want a night of hot sex.. But you have to get rid of the worship feelings you have ( had ) for him so you can just look at him like a sexy peice of meat you might want to devour tonite and nothing more...afterall thats how he's treating this situation..
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