Tired in NJ Posted February 22, 2006 Posted February 22, 2006 I've been involved with a man for over 2 years. Off and on. We're just friends right now. But he told me he was gay yesterday. This was after we had a relationship of sorts. He has told me that he loves me. He has acted like he wanted to be with me throughout the time I've known him. We decided on the friends thing because I'm going through some stuff and so is he (he's waiting hear whether or not he got into graduate school). Do you think he told me this to completely cut me out of his life? I mean he knows how I feel about him (i love him). So why would he wait over 2 years to come to the conclusion that he's all of a sudden gay? THis man is in his 30s, has been engaged before and has been messing around with me for a while. So should I really think he's gay or think he's messing around with me? Any advice would be great.
Delectable Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 Best Case Scenario - He is being honest with someone he has cared about for two years and he is gay Worst Case Scenario - He is running out of ways to tell you that no matter how much you love him he in no way wants to be with you. Either way - get over him:(
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