footinthemouth Posted February 22, 2006 Posted February 22, 2006 I was wondering who should do the NC(means no contact right?). I'm in a weird situation. I am currently separated from my wife of two years. I wanted to know if I should do the NC or not. I am the one who wanted to separate, I pushed her emotions away, built up walls, I was withdrawn from our relationship, and I torn her self esteem to bits. She the one who made if official that we separate. I have been talking to her in the days that have past and basically she can't be anything other than a friend with me right now. I have no problems with that, I'm trying to give her time and space like she asked, but should I not contact her for a while. I don't want her to think that I'm avoiding her. Should I wait for her to call me or should I call her. Thanks
riobikini Posted February 22, 2006 Posted February 22, 2006 FITM, I see you are a new member here, and have three threads posted, -all explaining some details of your dilemma. I read and responded to your first thread yesterday. Polite Suggestion: in order to keep things straight and the understanding of your situation more coherent and in sequence with events and responses as they are posted, it may be best to keep your threads to a minimum, until we can all get a grasp of what's going on with your circumstances. It just makes it easier to help you. (Wink & Smile) Sincerely, -Rio
Author footinthemouth Posted February 22, 2006 Author Posted February 22, 2006 Sorry, I'm just in a mixed up situation right now and I just needed some good advice.
RubixCube28 Posted February 22, 2006 Posted February 22, 2006 Sorry but from this post I see here.. Dosen't sound like you were that great to her.. So you really have no right to expect her back at all.. If that is what you were hopeing for.. Maybe with time if she is a forgeving kind of person.. You might have a chance but I woulden't push the issue...
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