D-Dan Posted February 21, 2006 Posted February 21, 2006 OK - I signed up for a net dating site, in the genuine hope that I might find someone to share my life with. That was six weeks ago. Six weeks later - and woman number 8. And I usually wind up sleeping with them (well, all bar one). Have I become an accidental player? (If it's a yes, I think I'd better cancel my sub)
Coochie Posted February 21, 2006 Posted February 21, 2006 You sound like you already know the answer to that one D-Dan.
TeddyShabba Posted February 21, 2006 Posted February 21, 2006 OK - I signed up for a net dating site, in the genuine hope that I might find someone to share my life with. That was six weeks ago. Six weeks later - and woman number 8. And I usually wind up sleeping with them (well, all bar one). Have I become an accidental player? (If it's a yes, I think I'd better cancel my sub) Do you think that you need to have sex with a woman before you marry her and realize that if you are going to find the woman of your dreams instead of just settling for one it is going to take some time
RecordProducer Posted February 21, 2006 Posted February 21, 2006 If you're not giving false hopes to anyone of them then I guess you're just sleeping around. If however you're becoming serious with one of them while sleeping with others then you're a player in the worst sense of the word.
BeFree Posted February 21, 2006 Posted February 21, 2006 Are you having Fun? Are you being Safe? Have you hurt anyone?
SuperMonk Posted February 22, 2006 Posted February 22, 2006 "Hi everyone, Look at me. I bang a lot of woman, but I feel very guilty, please glorify me and tell me what a bad person I am"
RecordProducer Posted February 22, 2006 Posted February 22, 2006 "Hi everyone, Look at me. I bang a lot of woman, but I feel very guilty, please glorify me and tell me what a bad person I am" Yeah, this could be like the joke where a guy goes to a catholic priest amd tells him about this young and cute girl that he bangs... Turns out he's not Catholic at all so the priest asks him why he's telling him that... The guy says: "I am telling everyone!"
Author D-Dan Posted February 22, 2006 Author Posted February 22, 2006 No - It's not a brag. Being new to internet dating I know what I'd hoped for, but the reality was so far from my expectations that I didn't know what to think. I've always had a view that sex was something best shared by two people who care for each other (and I still maintain that view). I haven't been initiating the sex, and I don't know if this is normal. Is net dating just one big swingers club? In which case I'm in the wrong place. I don't believe I'm hurting anyone, and I haven't had two on the go at the same time. Having said that, after thinking about what's been happening more and more, and reading the responses here, I've cancelled my subscription. I'm going back to doing things the old fashioned way, where jumping into bed at the earliest opportunity didn't seem to be the priority, but something to wait for and savour.
RecordProducer Posted February 22, 2006 Posted February 22, 2006 Is net dating just one big swingers club? In which case I'm in the wrong place. Dan, no. It's what you make of it. For some people their work place or the bar scene is a huge swinging club. I see internet and dating sites as places where you meet people - those you find hard to meet in person. You don't need to unsubscribe from the web sites; you seem to have a lot of success in meeting ladies that are attracted to you. Just act in accordance with your beliefs and desires and take advantage of the new high-tech way of living.
mikeyboy1990 Posted February 22, 2006 Posted February 22, 2006 yes u are u should really cancel ur sub OK - I signed up for a net dating site, in the genuine hope that I might find someone to share my life with. That was six weeks ago. Six weeks later - and woman number 8. And I usually wind up sleeping with them (well, all bar one). Have I become an accidental player? (If it's a yes, I think I'd better cancel my sub)
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