Guest Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Fitness and lifting weights is a lifestyle change not a quick fix to getting chicks.It will take time for your body to look more muscular anyway, even if you do steroids chances are anything you gain you will lose once you stop just because you don't have much muscle to begin with.I see guys in clubs that have the "club muscles" big chest and biceps' and really they have no symetry small scrawny chicken legs and under developed back from doing so much bench press.Lift weights to enhance your body over a long period of time not a quick fix to get women.I have dedicated years to lifting weights and I will take my shirt off and get compliments but it was never about getting chicks, sure it helped but I found the chicks that like you for your body are the chicks you want to run the farthest away from.My girlfriend now said she would never have dated me if she didn't know me first through work because she is not into the whole muscle guy thing.Even though it's a stereo type you miss out on certain types of women that are not into the whole big muscles thing. My whole point is do it for yourself not for getting women. Again, I'm not interested in developing an over-the-top pysique that you see in body-building competitions. I just want enough to remove the female bias against skinny guys as a barrier to my hooking up with women. Years of observation tells me that women who say that being skinny doesn't matter are not being honest. Why do guys who pump iron deny it's about being getting laid more often? Mountain biking is fun, and provides all the health benefits of cardiovascular exercise one needs, as well as weight loss if that's what someone wants to use. But mountain biking does little to develop the upper body. So why would someone want to spend hours every week in a stinky gym with lots of sweaty guys if it's not to be more attractive to whomever one wants to be attractive to? It's true that a girl who likes you for your body and nothing else is not enough for a successful LTR. But unless she likes what she sees when she first sees you, there's no chance for an LTR to start.
Author IWalkAlone Posted March 30, 2006 Author Posted March 30, 2006 Fitness and lifting weights is a lifestyle change not a quick fix to getting chicks.It will take time for your body to look more muscular anyway, even if you do steroids chances are anything you gain you will lose once you stop just because you don't have much muscle to begin with.I see guys in clubs that have the "club muscles" big chest and biceps' and really they have no symetry small scrawny chicken legs and under developed back from doing so much bench press.Lift weights to enhance your body over a long period of time not a quick fix to get women.I have dedicated years to lifting weights and I will take my shirt off and get compliments but it was never about getting chicks, sure it helped but I found the chicks that like you for your body are the chicks you want to run the farthest away from.My girlfriend now said she would never have dated me if she didn't know me first through work because she is not into the whole muscle guy thing.Even though it's a stereo type you miss out on certain types of women that are not into the whole big muscles thing. My whole point is do it for yourself not for getting women. Again, I'm not interested in developing an over-the-top pysique that you see in body-building competitions. I just want enough to remove the female bias against skinny guys as a barrier to my hooking up with women. Years of observation tells me that women who say that being skinny doesn't matter are not being honest. Why do guys who pump iron deny it's about being getting laid more often? Mountain biking is fun, and provides all the health benefits of cardiovascular exercise one needs, as well as weight loss if that's what someone wants to use. But mountain biking does little to develop the upper body. So why would someone want to spend hours every week in a stinky gym with lots of sweaty guys if it's not to be more attractive to whomever one wants to be attractive to? It's true that a girl who likes you for your body and nothing else is not enough for a successful LTR. But unless she likes what she sees when she first sees you, there's no chance for an LTR to start.
pricillia Posted April 3, 2006 Posted April 3, 2006 please refer to my thread in my sig line. good luck. alphamale... are you really an alpha male or do you just think your an alpha male? let me know
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