bailey Posted February 20, 2006 Posted February 20, 2006 hi Ive had 49days nc its getting worse rather than better. My ex and i are quite complicated, but ill give you the short version we were friends fr 8 yrs 3 yrs ago we began an affair there were problems in my marriage but i know this is not an excuse but it happened. A yr in to the affair i became pregnant,he freaked and started seeing someone else, during this time i left my husband and had my baby girl my ex saw his daughter occasionly,but then when she was 6 months we started to see each other again this time behind his girlfriends back i is awful to think our whole realationship has been based on an affair. we tried to finish it a couple of times but it never lasted long.he would always get back in touch to say he couldnt do it. Finally at xmas he said hed come to a decsion he was going to leave his gfriend and he wanted us to geta house and be a proper family,so we found a house and were due to move in on the 4th jan. New yrs eve i ring him at 11.48 and he tells me this is going to be our yr he cant wait etc etc,then later oni find a text that came through late but was sent at 11.40 basically saying sorry cant see you again. I text him the next day and day after that to ask what had gone on but got no reply, i know i should have rang him but was too upset at the time, so that was it 49 days ago do you think ill ever hear from him again. I feel devastated not just for me but for my daughter too, they never really bonded that well but she is still his 15mnth old baby. I am not one to push someone into something though, if he wants to see her fine but i wont use her to make contact do you think ill ever hear from him again he has totally cut us off for no reason.
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