Mieq Posted February 20, 2006 Posted February 20, 2006 so ill explain this from the start.. about 2 or 3 weeks ago when we just started our first semester i had no interest in anyone. But then 1 week into the semester 2 when our teacher broke us up into groups to explain stuff to the class about essays we were grouped together with 4 other girls and including myself a total of 2 boys. So since everyone didn't want to talk I decided to introduce myself, and then right after the girl that I like immediatly introduced herself. I was like .. Then since I knew the other guy in our group I introduced him to everyone and I had to like make everyone intro themselves. So then when I started talking I must of said something funny because she smiled at me. I didn't bother looking at her body language so i can't help you guys or girls with that. But she did sit right next to me. What should I do lol ? ( Me = Junior She = Senior ) ( She is single ) ( I'm a shy guy too ... )
Mary3 Posted February 20, 2006 Posted February 20, 2006 Ask her is shes seen the latest movie ( insert fav new movie ) and ask her if she wants to go with you ?
Author Mieq Posted February 20, 2006 Author Posted February 20, 2006 lol its hard for me to do those things b/c im shy
Mary3 Posted February 20, 2006 Posted February 20, 2006 Okay give me her number and I will ask for you
Mary3 Posted February 20, 2006 Posted February 20, 2006 LOL Well I am trying...why dont YOU ask her for it and then call her.....
Mary3 Posted February 20, 2006 Posted February 20, 2006 Are you really going to ask her ? If you do and you both get to talk on the phone just take a deep breath and talk slow and as confidant as you can muster
RubixCube28 Posted February 20, 2006 Posted February 20, 2006 It's easy just walk up to her and sweetly wisper in her lovely ear.."HEY BABY I DIG YOUR BOOTY WANNA BANG BANG TONIGHT AT MY PLACE" .. LoL sorry had to.. But seriously just ask her if she would like to hang out some time.. Best of luck to you..
amerikajin Posted February 20, 2006 Posted February 20, 2006 Nah, sorry, don't just cold ask her out to a movie. Here's what you need to do: First, you have to determine if she likes you. It doesn't matter if you like her, she has to like you back. How do you do that? By checkin' her out, finding out a little bit more about her and studying how she responds to you. During, before or after your classes, you need to start choosing opportunities to start asking her questions about herself. Basic stuff like 'Where are you from? What is your major? Why did you choose that major? What do you want to do with your career? What are you interests? What's your passion? Be genuinely curious about her. At some point, start finding out like what she likes to do on the weekends and so forth? You don't have to do this all in one conversation. If the conversation gets cut short then pick it up next time. But don't wait too long - get to your bottom line: what does she like to do, and would she like doing that with you. You have to see how she reacts to your questions and conversation. Does she smile a lot? Does she start opening herself up to you? Does she start asking questions about you? Does she play with her hair? If she does those things? She's at least showing some signs of attraction. If she seems like she's just talking to you and you don't sense anything, then leave her alone. I think you'll know if there's at least some interest on her part. Ask for the digits if it feels right.
amerikajin Posted February 20, 2006 Posted February 20, 2006 Wanted to add that a movie is a bad first date. Never ask a chick out to a movie for a first or even a second date. You need time to establish some kind of common bond, and before the second date you don't even know what kind of movies she would like. I would actually invite her out for a small coffee date. Just talk to her casually for two hours and get to know her better. Then, if things click, you can ask her out again to a real date. The key is, in the beginning, you kinda have to play cool. It's assumed that your intentions are romantic, but you have to hold back so that you don't come on too heavy.
Author Mieq Posted February 20, 2006 Author Posted February 20, 2006 How should I attempt to get closer to her? Because I hate it when girls walk and are in packs, it's almost impossible to find her alone. And what about the age differ? Shes 1 year older than me.
amerikajin Posted February 21, 2006 Posted February 21, 2006 The age difference is nothing. As for getting close to her, just bide your time and just try to get close to her in class. Maybe see if you can't walk out of class together. Do you guys have any common friends, interests? Maybe you could invite her to a party or something?
bigfatasian Posted February 21, 2006 Posted February 21, 2006 Hey Meiq, Amerikajin's pretty right about all this, you just need to talk to her and find out what she's into and what she's not. Sounds like you're interested in her already though, don't set your expectations too high, girls don't always say yes right away. to get her away by herself, you should really just keep an eye on when she's alone. Maybe on her breaks, after school, during lunch, in class during assignments. I'm sure if you go over to her group of friends and just start talking to them it's a good way to do it too. HONESTLY, just be confident about yourself, make sure you dress tidely, don't smell, put a little bit of cologne on, etc. and just feel like you're the s***. If she is interested in you, she'll laugh at your jokes, smile when you're talking, maybe even ask you out instead. The bottom line is, you have to like yourself in order for someone else to like you. k? good luck buddy.
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