witabix Posted February 19, 2006 Posted February 19, 2006 You were right. I ended up hurting more than I thought possible. You know what she said? What I did wrong, was to send her romantic poetry when I was unsure of the relationship. She may have a point. I am an incurable romantic. When I was about to say what she did wrong, she opened up on me and would not let me say anything. I am hurt now, stupid fool, but I am angry with myself for trusting, trusting my heart. It let me down, again. I will survive, this will make me a stronger person, I am better than this. My poor heart, how can be such a fool?
My_Other_I Posted February 19, 2006 Posted February 19, 2006 Wita, I'm sorry you are hurting. Romantic guys rock my world, but some ladies, I guess, don't like it so much. Stop by for a hug. I promise I will let you say what you wanted to tell her:)
Author witabix Posted February 19, 2006 Author Posted February 19, 2006 Thanks MOI, feeling down again, sorry, no fun.
My_Other_I Posted February 19, 2006 Posted February 19, 2006 Thanks MOI, feeling down again, sorry, no fun. I hear ya, having one of those today myself. Wanna have a slumber party?
johan Posted February 19, 2006 Posted February 19, 2006 Hey, man, the last thing you need to do is get down on yourself for the things she says you did "wrong". There is nothing wrong with poetry sent to the right girl, if that's how you want to express yourself. It's not always easy to tell whether the girl you're sending it to is the right girl. So you have to just do it. From everything you said about her in your other post, I think you were fighting a losing battle and it wouldn't have mattered what you did, "right" or "wrong". So don't let her make you re-write your history. You know the truth. You know what a girl in love acts like, and she wasn't doing it. So it was going to break down sooner or later. Hang in there and don't blame yourself for any of this. I'm not saying blame her. Just chalk it up to the game. You're free to put your energy into something more worthwhile now.
Author witabix Posted February 19, 2006 Author Posted February 19, 2006 Hey, man, the last thing you need to do is get down on yourself for the things she says you did "wrong". There is nothing wrong with poetry sent to the right girl, if that's how you want to express yourself. It's not always easy to tell whether the girl you're sending it to is the right girl. So you have to just do it. From everything you said about her in your other post, I think you were fighting a losing battle and it wouldn't have mattered what you did, "right" or "wrong". So don't let her make you re-write your history. You know the truth. You know what a girl in love acts like, and she wasn't doing it. So it was going to break down sooner or later. Hang in there and don't blame yourself for any of this. I'm not saying blame her. Just chalk it up to the game. You're free to put your energy into something more worthwhile now. So right Johan, lets get ready to rumble... Look out world I'm a comming!!!!!!!!!
Author witabix Posted February 19, 2006 Author Posted February 19, 2006 I hear ya, having one of those today myself. Wanna have a slumber party? I am almost slumbering myself MOI at this time, snuggle up and lets get some sleep!
cal gal Posted February 19, 2006 Posted February 19, 2006 Oh Wit- I am so sorry! She had no right to just take you down further and try to hurt you more. Seems to me she is a gal that is not capable of deeper emotions than surface stuff. You need a gal that will appreciate the wonderful things that you have to offer. She is not worthy of your sadness! Big hug to you Wit! M-
Author witabix Posted February 19, 2006 Author Posted February 19, 2006 Phone has been ringing off the hook, house and mobile, i am not answering. CG, you are right. I deserve more. I will post further later...........
Lonestar Posted February 19, 2006 Posted February 19, 2006 Witabix, it's ok. You followed your heart and it's not your fault that she doesn't have one. We learn from our mistakes I suppose. I just posted in the parenting forum about a major screw up I realized about 5 minutes ago.
jerbear Posted February 19, 2006 Posted February 19, 2006 What I did wrong, was to send her romantic poetry when I was unsure of the relationship. She may have a point. I am an incurable romantic. My poor heart, how can be such a fool? Sorry to hear about your loss. You are not a fool, you voiced your feelings and got it off your chest. You could not have done worse. It would be worse if you were not yourself and became someone else. Nothing wrong with being a romantic, it means you are a human being with feelings. It is better to know now than later. So chin up and next time I'm in Ireland, I'll buy you a guiness or whatever you drink and drink it with you. I have never been to Ireland but almost applied to the MBA programme @ Smurft.
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