cal gal Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Okay - life is scary when my post shows almost identical to alphas.
alphamale Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Okay - life is scary when my post shows almost identical to alphas.
Lonestar Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 What an idiot.. " hey honey I just scored front mud pit row seats to the truck show .. Do I love ya or what ? " Well, I was really pissed when he bought $250 tickets to Ultimate Fighting Championship and didn't ask me to go. I could care less about UFC, but it was at the casino and we could've had a nice dinner and did some gambling after. He also told me how he never had any money to take me out, but he paid for his friends tickets. I had been asking him for months to take me away for a weekend (of course I'd pay half), but he bitched and moaned there was no money. Then he spent a thousand dollars on tickets so he could be the big man amongst his friends. I was so hurt and still can't figure out why I didn't matter or why he didn't want to do things for me to make me happy. He swears I did matter and that he'll always love me. blah blah blah Yeah, he was an idiot, Art
cal gal Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Wit- Tell her to go take a flying leap! Maybe you'll get together and talk to her when pigs fly! There really isn't anything she is going to be able to say that will allow things to be great, so why bother?
Author witabix Posted February 18, 2006 Author Posted February 18, 2006 I understand your points people. I am not going to 'get back with', I am interested in what she wants to say to me. I am not going under sufferance, or duress. I know you are all thinking of my best interests, and thanks for that. I will not be soft soaped, the best she can get is the occasional drink, if I feel like it. She originally suggested a meal, I said no. She has missed this boat. In a way I want her to see what she hasn't got anymore. What she blew off. I will be dressed very sharply, clean and scented, looking good. Feeling confident, in control, smiling and relaxed. Your round...........
Art_Critic Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Yeah, he was an idiot, Art You are better off without someone like that.. not being high up in someones priority list is just asking for crumbs..
Art_Critic Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 She originally suggested a meal, I said no. She has missed this boat. In a way I want her to see what she hasn't got anymore. What she blew off. Huh ?? Witabix.. Time has to pass in order for her to miss what she hasn't got anymore.. Showing her within the same 24 hours you broke up what she is missing will have ZERO effect Your not thinking straight right now.. I wish you would reconsider the date thing and cancel..
Lonestar Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Huh ?? Witabix.. Time has to pass in order for her to miss what she hasn't got anymore.. Showing her within the same 24 hours you broke up what she is missing will have ZERO effect Your not thinking straight right now.. I wish you would reconsider the date thing and cancel.. witabix, I wouldn't go either. You're thinking with your heart and not your head and it sounds like you're rationlizing your decision to meet with her. You're going to go there with an "I'll show her" attitude which will only backfire on you. Don't cancel, just don't show up - like she always did to you. Then tell her you had to go meet a friend at the last minute and you're sorry. Maybe you can squeeze her sorry ass into your schedule next week.
Guest Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Don't cancel, just don't show up - like she always did to you. agree 100%. witabix, don't kid yourself. You're meeting up with her in the hope of getting back together.
jerbear Posted February 19, 2006 Posted February 19, 2006 witabix, My suggestion is to cancel the dinner/date/get together/meeting... well I say just let it go and move on. 18 months is a long time. Even ripping her a new one would not have been that useful. Been there a few times and ripped her a new one only for both of us to fall back into bad habits. Being dressed spiffy is a plus, get a hair cut while you are at it, make sure it is using scissors instead of shears. Might as well look good while being shot at. I've done it and she broke NC to comment about my cut and look. anyway... If it really gives you closure, do it and get your closure. Personally I'll go out and get a gusiness or martini during that time.
Guest Posted March 26, 2006 Posted March 26, 2006 I had... a boyfirend once. Loved him forever. He stayed and she did too. Oh well, what are friends for? To let it run its course. Of course. NOW I get it. Sorry for the shorts. Lets all be friends, Peace. Baby.
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