snowbunny4 Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 well anyways i have like this myspace account and i send him messages and he never replies them...like usually i say hey call me tonight and he never does. Or i say hey wassup? and he never replies me then. And i know he reads them because there is this thing that you can check if he reads them or not. well anyways last time i tried calling him and he said that he couldn't talk at the moment. so at skool he never writes me notes or anything because usually he does. he seemed so interested at the beginning but now its like he doesnt even wanna talk to me anymore. its not like we are bf and gf or anything but he asked me to be his valentine and everything and everything was good. do you think that he just found someone else he is more interested in? if you have any ideas please tell me it would be a lot of help because i feel so down and my self esteem is very low at the moment.
Cupcake Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 I wish I had advice for you. But I'm in the same situation as you. I haven't had a conversation with my SO in two months. During this time, he has called me, twice, and left short messages. I call him but he's always too busy. He promises to call. He never does. I finally told him how much I was hurting yesterday in an email. He responded really cold and basically said he will call whenever he finds time. Everyone who gave me advice told me he is probably dating someone else. Perhaps that is the same for your guy. I feel your pain. Hope it gets better. I hope one day he see's just how awesome you are and he regrets treating you this way.
phyrespryte Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Stop calling him. Stop messaging him. I'm probably not the person to be saying this as I'm stressing about a guy majorly....but you really should stop calling him. Not only is it making you look needy/clingy it's also making you feel bad. He doesn't want to talk to you and I don't know why. I'm thinking that probably he felt smothered. Or maybe there's another girl. I don't know. But it would probably be good if you step back and give him some time to start responding to you.
agnf666 Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 You need to stop all contact with him for right now... Let him come to you... If he doesn't then you will see that he is not interested in you... Try not to push yourself on him... Play hard to get... Sometimes guys don't like it when a girl writes them letters, and calls them all the time... They need there space as well... I have much expierence with this... So, Like I said just leave him alone for a while... Then you will see what is up.
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