15yearsafter Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 she walked away from me 15 years ago. i miss her everyday.im battling depression. she should be married to me not him.i cant believe how miserable this life is.15 years.im lost.
Ruff Ryder Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Whats up? So what have you been doing for the past 15 years? Let it go let her go let your fear go. Loss of comtroll in not a bad thing in some cases. Just let it all go experince a diffrent level of fredom. The pain will be there and will hurt for as long AS you let it. Think about you and not how sorry you feel for yourself. Just be a happy person and happiness will find you.
UT_longhorn Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 15 years...have you considered counseling as well as medication for the depression? I'm sorry to hear that you've hit such a low point. I think me telling you time will heal sounds like a slap in your face...but its a truth. Stay strong brother..and keep posting/reading.
mablung Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 hey, sorry to hear things are tough after so much time. Hoping it won't sound too silly, but have you tried making new friends, dating, and all that stuff ? And I don't just mean female friends... Also, pretty much shooting in the dark here, because I don't know your story, but, in case you haven't already done that, try to take out of your life as many things that remind you of her as possible - like furniture, objects, souvenirs, letters/photographs, etc. I'm not saying throw them away - no. Just put them someplace where you can get them back after a while, after you feel better prepared to look at them without howling in pain. Give them to a friend for safekeeping, or something like that. I think that, maybe, _some_ human contact is better than _no_ human contact. What I'm trying to say is, yes, you miss her, and need her, and want her back like crazy. OK. For whatever reason, you cannot have her back. OK. How about trying a surrogate ? I'm not saying just propose to the first chick you see alone in a bar, no. But you can try to spend time with friends (of either sex); perhaps female friends might be able to offer you more comfort (and no, I don't mean sex. I mean comfort, spiritual, emotional), maybe because sometimes us guys have a hard time opening up to other guys. Like UT_longhorn said, keep posting and reading, don't sulk somewhere on your own.
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