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I have another update about my friend. I ended up going to lunch with him this afternoon. I paid for lunch this time since he paid for lunch last Friday, although he was trying to grab the check from me. He was very appreciative that I paid for lunch. After lunch we walked out by the pier and appreciated the ocean view. He then suggnested we go to this park area with a bunch of museums. We went around to one of the musuems and around the Park where he pointed out things that I could come down to do during the summer. He and I had a good time, we laughed a lot and he seemed really relaxed around me. It seemed like we had a good time just wandering about. When we walked back to the car, he asked me if there was anything else that I wanted to do and I was like I didnt know, but I then told him that I wanted to ask him a question and for him not to take it the wrong way. He as like ok. I asked him if he wanted to go out to dinner and he stood there and thought about it and I was like dont worry about it, if you cant, I didnt mean anything by it. He then put his hand on my shoulder and said that tonight wasnt good because he had to return some phone calls and work on something with someone. He told me that he enjoyed my company and that he liked hanging out with me because I was a nice person and because I inspired him and was making him break out of his shell and start to enjoy life again, and then he suggested we go to dinner tomorrow night. I cant do it for tomorrow night because I am going up by my parents. I told him that and I said we could try for this weekend, and he said, that would be ok and to keep him updated. He then drove me back to my place and before he dropped me off, he asked me for a hug and he hugged me. Then he told me to keep him informed about dinner plans and he even gave me his personal email so I could email him about it. He told me that he would try to think up of places to go eat at this weekend. He told me he had a good time and he wished me well. I told him taht I was in a good mood and that I hoped I would get the job that I interviewed for. I also told him that if I got the job, we wouldnt be able to hang out on Friday afternoons anymore and he said that was understandable.

 

He seemed like he had a good time with me and we probably will go out to dinner this weekend. What do you guys think? Is this the beginning of a decent friendship?

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It sounds like a guy taking it slow.

He told me that he enjoyed my company and that he liked hanging out with me because I was a nice person and because I inspired him and was making him break out of his shell and start to enjoy life again,

 

This is very good :) Continue as you have been doing. I suspect good things are headed your way.

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Do you just want to be friends with this guy or do you want a dating relationship?

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I am not sure what I want. I like him as a friend, but I want to see what he is looking for. Let me put it this way, I want to see what he wants and then I will decide. I want a friend and sometimes I want a bit more. Not sure myself.

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I was told by someone that I should not email him about the dinner thing this weekend as I may be sounding pushy for it. Should I email him letting him know that I can do it tomorrow or Monday, but if he isnt comfortable with it, just to let me know and I would be fine, or just let it go and see if he still wants it and let him email me. He told me last night to email him what dates are good.

 

I dont want to be pushy and I do want to hang out with him again.

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you really got to make up your mind. you can't be wishy washy, you got to know what you want! if you like him as more than a friend then you have to give the signals - flirt with him, compliment him, touch him. he will most likely understand and will do the next steps ie., ask you out.

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