Angeleyez2583 Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 I talked to the ex again yesterday. We discussed some of the good things about our relationship, and had a great conversation. He wants me to come down to his college and visit him, even though he has a gf. He tells me over and over again how he is not happy in the relationship with her. She constantly nags at him, b!tches at him, and fights with him. I stated there was no point to coming because I did not want his gf b!tching at him. He said he didn't care because it is going to be over soon. We dated for 2 1/2 years, and he stated that the relationship had been great expect for the drunk fights. He knows I've calmed down and so has he with the drinking. Quite frankly, I don't have the time to cuz of school. We still get along really great. Does anyone think if I keep being friends with him, and go hang out with him, he'll realize what he lost, or is this a worthless cause. We've been broken up since march, quickly became friends again, started hooking back up and doing stuff together (I want camping with him and his family a few times). He'd always get jealous about the guys I was dating, etc etc, but then when this new girl came along, he went to her b/c it was the first girl interested in him. 5 months later, he wants to hang out with me again. So could there be any chance of "getting back together" or is this a worthless cause?
Blue in Texas Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Sure there is a chance of getting back together. At least until he finds someone he likes better. But why on earth would you want to? It sounds like you are no longer hurting, and this guy seems incredibly self-centered. Re-read your post. He wants you to come down and visit him. I take it he is too busy to visit you. He expressed his jealousy over you seeing other guys, as though you should be there waiting, just in case. Of course you can get him back. You are an attractive option to him now that he is breaking up with his gf and wants a soft landing. But you are opening yourself up to a lot of hurt if you give this guy a second chance.
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