So...he's interested, right...? Or not...

[Dont-Dream-It]

Okay I posted about this in January but things have developed since then and I need some opinions...

 

Okay. There's this guy who is in a production at the theatre with me. We get on so well, flirting, listening to music together - sharing earphones and whatnot when we're not needed on stage - we text each other a tonne too. And I'm really confused.

 

We are both fairly witty and banter with each other a lot, and recently he makes suggestive comments towards me and, as I find myself rather liking him, of course make them back. He even said at a party that he would pull me...but then he'll say something like "Oh, I met this fit girl and I wasn't really thinking right..." or something like that, and it makes me wonder...

 

...Does he like me or not? He says he likes that I'm comfortable around him, and I asked if he felt the same around me, which his reply was yes. He liked that he could talk to me and that there were no awkward moments between us.

 

And the other day I suggested that he should listen to a certain song which he hadn't heard of so I said "Well you can listen to my MP3 on Saturday" and he replied "That means I get to spend quality time with you then"...however when I make light comments such as "...oh! It's because you love me!" he responds with a non comittal "LoL"...

 

Right, that was all about two weeks ago. Now, since then we have grown even closer. On Valentine’s Day he came with me and my friends to the cinema and out for a meal. I held his hand, hugged him and played with the sleeve of his jumper all the way through the film. I was leaning on him when we were all chatting after the meal, my arm linked in his. Everyone said we looked like a couple!

 

Then on Thursday both him and I were in town with about ten mutual friends of ours from the theatre, once again I stuck pretty close to him all day, and so many comments were made on how cute we look as a couple - he, however laughed it off or just sort of nodded and smiled. Then, when my hand was cold - he also did this on Valentine’s Day - he told me to them in his pocket to warm them, so, naturally, I did. =P

 

Through out our time in town we stood pretty close to each other, him always laughing and joking with me as I do him.

 

As the group of us were walking to Theatre we linked arms - the guy and I - and I put my hand in his pocket to keep it warm, he also had his hand in there and kept put his fingers around mine, so eventually I pushed my hand a little deeper and we were holding hands once again, this time concealed from everyone as they were in his pocket.

 

Once we were at Theatre due to lack of chairs we had to share one, so obviously pretty cosy next to each other reading the same script and when we stood to sing as a group I was standing practically in his pocket!

 

ANYWAY. A mutual friend of ours - who knows of my liking for him - asked him about me he said “We’re just good friends” and then when asked again he niether confirmed nor denied reciprocating the feelings.

 

I also know that when he likes a girl - he asks her out, or so he has in this past year adn half I've known him.

 

So, now I am so confused, I don’t want to fess up and risk rejection thus ruining our friendship…what do you think? I need advice because I REALLY like him and I’m finding this hard...

[Max Overclock]

I put my hand in his pocket to keep it warm, he also had his hand in there and kept put his fingers around mine, so eventually I pushed my hand a little deeper and we were holding hands once again, this time concealed from everyone as they were in his pocket."

 

Clearly, your pockets weren't warm and you pushed your hands deeper in his pocket, because it was warmer down there, right? ....

 

Uh huh ...

 

I think instead of telling him that "...oh! It's because you love me!" ... he could just as aptly say that to you, right?

 

[Dont-Dream-It]

Haha! Actually I didn't have any pockets that day - I'd not been so wise with my clothing choice really!