lizad Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 I actually saw the W once when I met the OM......it was on a vacation on an island where we met.....happened to live in the next state about a little less than two hours away. We always talk about our home lives to one another.... stupidly he can be almost too honest with me and then of course there are times I dont know that I believe him...... I also think he wants to believe everything he tells me. He has sworn up and down that they havent been intimate in over two years.... not sure what I think of that however b/c of other things he tells me he may not be lying. i have listened to voicemails she has left him. I supposidly am in a diff. spot than he is in my marriage and he has said that if I am going to stay here, that he just wants his M to be like mine......and then we will be on the same page. he has not said that he cant stand her or stuff like that......he has said that he wishes he could just have the intimacy there and the warmth because he still is there at this point. I do ask questions as I cant help being curious, then on that same note I sometimes dont want to hear the answers........do you know what i mean?
lovernotafighter Posted February 26, 2006 Posted February 26, 2006 my MM wants to tell me whats going on in his marriage..he claims he has no one to talk to honestly about it and needs to...it's frustrating..I've told him I can't say anything about it so it's a one sided conversation because anything I say would just sound like it's coming from a bitter jealous mistress and not a friend..yet he continues to tell me things. he also sent me a picture of her (with out me asking). and tells me wild tales of her anger.I used to think she couldn't be that bad..till he got one of his friends a job with us..he has no idea we are even close friends and he told me a whole lot of horrid things about my MM's marriage that it was more shocking then what I already heard..possibly because I was certain my MM was embellishing the truth. he tells me everything from there sex life to her shopping habits...I know there life inside and out..he even gave me her cell phone number..real shocker here...I some times wonder if he wants me to liberate him you know....I mean who does that?
Aaurora_26 Posted February 26, 2006 Posted February 26, 2006 my MM wants to tell me whats going on in his marriage....he even gave me her cell phone number..real shocker here...I some times wonder if he wants me to liberate him you know....I mean who does that? Your MM seems to be very honest with you....I find that intriguing that he gave you her cell phone number! Maybe you should try ringing it and see who answers? I would be very curious! I think it's great that he is so honest with you, theres not many like that.
lovernotafighter Posted February 26, 2006 Posted February 26, 2006 Your MM seems to be very honest with you....I find that intriguing that he gave you her cell phone number! Maybe you should try ringing it and see who answers? I would be very curious! I think it's great that he is so honest with you, theres not many like that.thank you Aaurora,I do believe he is very honest...almost to a fault..you know,where I don't want to hear half the things he tells me. it's funny when he told me his W's number I asked him if he suddenly lost his mind! lol! he even gave me his passwords to his e-mail accounts...I didn't ask for those either. but the reason he told me his wife's number was incase she called I'd know the number...I still think it's a crazy thing to give it me...but he trusts me with allot...he says his life is in my hands..indeed *oh edit* I won't ring her...she would see my number and then he'd know I called and such...it's better for all if I never dial that
CeeJayXXX Posted February 27, 2006 Posted February 27, 2006 my MM wants to tell me whats going on in his marriage..he claims he has no one to talk to honestly about it and needs to...it's frustrating..I've told him I can't say anything about it so it's a one sided conversation because anything I say would just sound like it's coming from a bitter jealous mistress and not a friend..yet he continues to tell me things. he also sent me a picture of her (with out me asking). and tells me wild tales of her anger.I used to think she couldn't be that bad..till he got one of his friends a job with us..he has no idea we are even close friends and he told me a whole lot of horrid things about my MM's marriage that it was more shocking then what I already heard..possibly because I was certain my MM was embellishing the truth. he tells me everything from there sex life to her shopping habits...I know there life inside and out..he even gave me her cell phone number..real shocker here...I some times wonder if he wants me to liberate him you know....I mean who does that? My MM and I are very much in the same situation as you.....we are more of the "best friends with benefits" than just the once a week or month afternoon out... He tells me everything.... their daily routines, about their holidays....he sends pics of his family to me.... I don't have a problem with it, I never have.... we just have an odd but close relationship with a lot of honesty between us....... He has come to me about issues with W and I have completely backed her because I knew her outlook was more reasonable.
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