Guest Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 I met a guy online back in September and 3 days later, met him in person (by chance) in a totally different city. We both lived 3 hours apart, but we started to see each other right then and there. I knew that only 5 months ago he ended a 5 year relationship, but we both really wanted to be with one another...so two weeks later we were exclusively dating. Now 5 months later we break up. We had no fights, no arguments. Everything was amazing. We both loved each other. He told me when we broke up that I treated him better then anyone ever has and that our physical connection was the best he has ever had. He then said it has nothing to do with me...he is just not ready. He wants to be single. It is what his life needs. I asked him to not give us up, but he said that for him to be truely happy...he has to make himself happy. So I said ok. We both decided that we wanted to still see each other and continue to date, yet there was nothing commital about it. He still kisses me with the same amount of passion as when we were together. Everything is the same...except we are not "together." I told him I would wait for him and he said that he does not know how long it will be...but that if I am still around, I would be the first to know. Is this something that is normal? Can two people who were so close take these steps backwards in order to love better and more completely? Right now my heart is broken...I just hope he will come back to me.
IrishCarBomb Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 We both decided that we wanted to still see each other and continue to date, yet there was nothing commital about it. He still kisses me with the same amount of passion as when we were together. Everything is the same...except we are not "together." I told him I would wait for him and he said that he does not know how long it will be...but that if I am still around, I would be the first to know. I love delusion. You are his FWB now. Hope you're cool with that.
StarbrightSB Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 I think it might be what you guys need. After being with someone for 5 years, maybe he needs some time to himself to discover whats he's like single and figure his lif out. It an be healthy, as long as he's not just looking for someone elase and keeping you on the back burner! Good luck!
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