Long IM conversation in spanish WIFE IS CHEATING

[dilbert]

see my other two posts...

 

but I would like this translated cause I feel I am being used horribly after reading this... but I don't understand all of it.

 

The ... is where my wife was speaking.

 

 

 

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Que Paso

 

… Que no paso jijiji lo del pata ya fue barry como que se dio cuento poquito pero no cuenta cuenta. Una larga convercacion

 

 

Detalles, desde que llegaste

 

…Yo yo

 

chisme chisme

 

… lluegue

 

con quen converastat si cuenta

 

… y el fue o vcerme y … bueno hablamos “mecito”? ese dio or non dia pero “no or ro” pude salir

 

pucha no me lo puedo bajar no se puru

 

… y el me jijo para que nos comminuquemos asi por es buenaso

 

no se entro a la pag y no carga

 

… solo que no hay con quien

 

si pes, ahace tiempo me ban dicho pero no e traido mis parlantes, asi que no lo instalaba

 

… si pues (pez)

 

corrio que no hay con quien

 

… para hablar gratis bueno y lo instole

 

a yo

 

…????? Ya cuento

…. Y el unico contacto qu tenja era erl y barry lo ve

 

no te creo ese cuando fue

 

… que nunca en su vida se sintio mas celoso hace 3 dios yo pucha por supuesto lo negue pero no le quando el bichito…missing… lo llamo y le jije que major quede alli y el me dijo que setaba bien. Pero me llamo al trabjo anteayer paraa salir por ultima vez por ayer y salimos

 

aja

 

… no sabes la montrican que dije masenti tan mal

 

pero a el bor que le mientes

 

… pero puncha a final la pase recontra bien con el. Hahahaha al el no … o barry… missing… pucha

 

si pes, pucha pero ya no te amiesgues mas

 

…nos fuimos o un hotel

 

puedes perder mucho ademas que el no se moraco eso aja

 

… y luego o comer sushi y barry que llamaba cada 15 min horrible

pero yo quendomos en que alli lo dejobamos

 

… missing… sipes te cuidado que iba a la casa de una amiga

… no hagas huados as major que la dejes ni defintivamente pero que no llegue por que me perdi y como siempre me peirdo me creyo pero dudaba hasta que ayer hablamos en la noche y me digo dudaba hasta que ayer hablamos en la noche y me digo que iba a peliar por mi sin en que era por s nalvar nuestro matrimonin

 

hahahahaha

 

… hahahahaha

 

… no te creo que lindo

 

no se pierdo le proxima episodio de denisse

 

… osea que si se las huele

 

si de hecho

 

… hahahaha

 

pero claracha el es lindo

 

… cual

 

bien chevere

 

… hahaha

 

para salir y pasarle bien pero bueno pues resignada

 

… que feo no

 

o sequir con barry

 

… pucha, pero que sientes

 

si, ahora ya no se lo quiro … a barry. Osea aveces una se puedo contundir (pero no se dacuenta) pero puecho no es por eltipo. y hacer mi os cocua

 

… claro, si es que no estas bien con alguien es por eso que haces cosas

 

si tener que dorle cuentos a nadi

 

… no estabas preparadia para casarte derrepentie

 

si creo que si

 

… osea para se mujer de uno

 

no y ahora recien me dey cuenta

 

… pucha

 

Denisse que ib o tranquilzorma

 

… ai amiga que feito y le sientes confuridida

 

si pues pero

 

… si pues

 

haber que paso voy a tartar de estra con barry intentario

 

… si pues, dale algo de tiempo

 

ayer me decio

 

… derrepente se te paso y seaclaran tus serrlirrientos

 

si me dejas me muero y eso tambien me llega yo le decio por que dices eso

 

… sabes que. Hay un dicho que dice no dejes a que te amo por alguren a qaue tu amas, por que osto alguren te vadejar por aven ama. Y me dice que soy lo major que le puedo pasr pue

 

dejame loor de Nuevo

 

… por que estas mal con barry, y si lo dejas por el, con el tiempo tambien no pasa nada on este oooooooo si yo se claracha no es el tipo es que puede pasar con alguren mas y no quiero menttile mos me seinto mal

 

Missing… por este mux no esla voz. La cosas es que des una oportinidad mas a barry

 

… no ni ndo

 

para ver como van las cosas

 

… el mex medijo que no dejaba a su esposo por nadie que estaba casado por vida a algo asi

 

si pes, y de trampa tampocoes la voz

 

… si eso tambien por eso alli nada mas

 

 

MISSING.. pero es dificil no, osea supongo que igual tines ganas de verlo

 

… y lo peor que tal si me enmar de el cogado

 

clarines, puchas a sales peor si recontra cagada

 

… yo period saga y cabra

 

si pes

 

… si los horribles me encantan hahaha

 

si teenamras pierds chochera la cosa es enamorarso de alguen q corresponda

 

… pucha imagination si ubiese sido hombre que mujeriego serio

 

uy te imaginas barrias

 

…. Hahaha

 

si aye por suerte no eres hombre, y si hubieras sido hubiera buido de ti hahahaha

 

… hahaha si pucha que feo

[Barby]

Okay this may take a bit for me to translate.....it's really long so I'm just going to sum up each paragraph...hope you don't mind. Now I'm curious...guess I need to go and read your other two threads when I'm done here.....

[dilbert]

Thank you.. I look foward to reading your summary... this is a conversation between her and one of her best friends in Peru...

[Barby]

Que Paso---(what's up?)

 

… Que no paso jijiji lo del pata ya fue barry como que se dio cuento poquito pero no cuenta cuenta. Una larga convercacion

(what didn't happen (jijiji-is like hahaha) It was like Barry found out a little bit but didn't find out find out. a long conversation)

 

Detalles, desde que llegaste

(details since you came)

 

 

…Yo yo

(me me)

 

chisme chisme

(lies lies (also could be in the form of "gossip gossip")

 

… lluegue

(I came)

 

con quen converastat si cuenta

(who did you talk to? tell)

 

… y el fue o vcerme y … bueno hablamos “mecito”? ese dio or non dia pero “no or ro” pude salir

(and he went or see me and well we talked (I have no idea what "mecito" means) he gave or didn't give he can go)

 

pucha no me lo puedo bajar no se puru

(I can't download it I don't know)

 

… y el me jijo para que nos comminuquemos asi por es buenaso

(and he told me that communicating like that is really good)

 

no se entro a la pag y no carga

(i can't into the page, it won't load)

 

… solo que no hay con quien

(only there isn't anyone to do it with)

 

si pes, ahace tiempo me ban dicho pero no e traido mis parlantes, asi que no lo instalaba

(yes well it's been awhile that I've been told but I haven't brought my speakers or installed them)

 

… si pues (pez)

(yes well)

 

corrio que no hay con quien

(to run, I don't have with who)---(basically they don't have anyone to leave with is what it says)

 

… para hablar gratis bueno y lo instole

(to talk free I'll install it)

 

a yo

(me)

 

…????? Ya cuento

(i told)

 

…. Y el unico contacto qu tenja era erl y barry lo ve

(the only contact I have is barry he saw)

 

no te creo ese cuando fue

(I don't believe you, when did that happen)

 

… que nunca en su vida se sintio mas celoso hace 3 dios yo pucha por supuesto lo negue pero no le quando el bichito…missing…

lo llamo y le jije que major quede alli y el me dijo que setaba bien. Pero me llamo al trabjo anteayer paraa salir por ultima vez por ayer y salimos

(never in his life has he been so jealous, three days ago I bet him and I denied it I called him and said it was better he stay there and he said it was ok.

But yesterday he called me at work the day before yesterday to go out for the last time and we went out).

 

aja

( a ha)

 

… no sabes la montrican que dije masenti tan mal

(you don't know the lie i told, i feel bad)

 

pero a el bor que le mientes

(but why do you lie to him?)

 

… pero puncha a final la pase recontra bien con el. Hahahaha al el no … o barry… missing… pucha

(but at the end i was back good with him....hahahaha and him no or barry) (i have no idea about missing or "pucha")

 

si pes, pucha pero ya no te amiesgues mas

(yes well don't (i'm not sure what amigues is it must be slang or mispelled) more)

 

…nos fuimos o un hotel

(we went to a hotel)

 

puedes perder mucho ademas que el no se moraco eso aja

(you can lose a lot, doesn't deserve that)

 

… y luego o comer sushi y barry que llamaba cada 15 min horrible

pero yo quendomos en que alli lo dejobamos

(then I came to eat sushi and barry called every 15 minutes, how horrible)

 

… missing… sipes te cuidado que iba a la casa de una amiga

(yes well he was watching you, you were going to a friends house)

 

… no hagas huados as major que la dejes ni defintivamente pero que no llegue por que me perdi y como s

iempre me peirdo me creyo pero dudaba hasta que ayer hablamos en la noche y me digo dudaba hasta que ayer hablamos

en la noche y me digo que iba a peliar por mi sin en que era por s nalvar nuestro matrimonin

(es better if you leave him but not for sure, but I didn't come because i got lost, i always get lost, and like I always get lost he believed me

but he doubted until yesterday when we talked in the night and he told me he was going to fight for me so we can save this marriage)

 

hahahahaha

(you see this is laughing)

 

… hahahahaha

(same)

 

… no te creo que lindo

(i don't believe you, how nice)

 

no se pierdo le proxima episodio de denisse

(don't lose on the next episode de denisse)

 

… osea que si se las huele

(well yes they smell)

 

… hahahaha

 

pero claracha el es lindo

(but claracha (again may be slang or "clearly" mispelled) he is nice.

 

… cual

(which)

 

bien chevere

(good cool)

 

… hahaha

 

para salir y pasarle bien pero bueno pues resignada

(but to go out and have a good time, but well resigned)

 

… que feo no

(how ugly no?)

 

o sequir con barry

(or to stay with barry)

 

… pucha, pero que sientes

(what do you feel?)

 

si, ahora ya no se lo quiro … a barry. Osea aveces una se puedo contundir (pero no se dacuenta) pero puecho no es por eltipo. y hacer mi os cocua

(well now i don't know what i want...barry or sometimes one can continue (but they don't realize) but "pucho" is not the type. and do my..cocua (who knows what cocua is?)

 

… claro, si es que no estas bien con alguien es por eso que haces cosas

(clearly yes you're not good with someone that's why you do things)

 

si tener que dorle cuentos a nadi

(without having to tell anything to anyone)

 

… no estabas preparadia para casarte derrepentie

(you weren't ready to get married so quick)

 

 

This is what I have so far....I'm working on the other half now! I'm glad I can help and well I think that you are being used as well based on this conversation but anyway I'm sorry but again glad i can help....I will have the other one for ya soon:)

[Barby]

Here is the last part............

 

 

 

si creo que si

(yes i believe yes)

 

… osea para se mujer de uno

(well to be the lady of one)

 

no y ahora recien me dey cuenta

(no and now i realize)

 

… pucha

 

Denisse que ib o tranquilzorma

(denisse it would calm me)

 

… ai amiga que feito y le sientes confuridida

(oh my friend how ugly, and you feel so confused)

 

si pues pero

(yes well but)

 

… si pues

(yes well)

 

haber que paso voy a tartar de estra con barry intentario

(yes well it happened and i'm going to try to be with barry, try)

 

… si pues, dale algo de tiempo

(yes well give it some time)

 

ayer me decio

(yesterday he told me)

 

… derrepente se te paso y seaclaran tus serrlirrientos

(it happened all of a sudden and your feelings will be clear)

 

 

si me dejas me muero y eso tambien me llega yo le decio por que dices eso

(if you leave me I'll die and that also came to me and i said why do you say that)

 

… sabes que. Hay un dicho que dice no dejes a que te amo por alguren a qaue tu amas, por que osto alguren te vadejar por aven ama.

Y me dice que soy lo major que le puedo pasr pue

(you know what, there is a saying, don't leave the one who loves you for the one you love because that person won't give you the same love and he

told me that i'm the best that's happened to him).

 

dejame loor de Nuevo

(let me read again)

 

… por que estas mal con barry, y si lo dejas por el, con el tiempo tambien no pasa nada on este oooooooo

si yo se claracha no es el tipo es que puede pasar con alguren mas y no quiero menttile mos me seinto mal

(why are you mean to barry, and if you leave him for him with time nothing will happen with this yes i know

claracha (again not sure what that is) es the type that you can be with and I don't want to lie to him anymore i feel bad).

 

Missing… por este mux no esla voz. La cosas es que des una oportinidad mas a barry

(that is why there is a voice. the thing is give another chance to barry)

 

… no ni ndo

(not one)

 

para ver como van las cosas

(to see how things go)

 

… el mex medijo que no dejaba a su esposo por nadie que estaba casado por vida a algo asi

(the mex told me that he wouldn't leave his spouse for anyone because he was married for life or something like that)

 

si pes, y de trampa tampocoes la voz

(yes well and the trap isn't the voice)

 

… si eso tambien por eso alli nada mas

(yes that to, thats why to there and no more)

 

 

MISSING.. pero es dificil no, osea supongo que igual tines ganas de verlo

(but it's hard no, i mean i suppose you still want to see him)

 

… y lo peor que tal si me enmar de el cogado

(and the worst is what if i fall in love with him)

 

clarines, puchas a sales peor si recontra cagada

(think, if you push it could come out to be ****)

 

… yo period saga y cabra

(no clue what this says sorry)

 

si pes

(yes well)

 

… si los horribles me encantan hahaha

(yes but the horribles i love hahahaha)

 

si teenamras pierds chochera la cosa es enamorarso de alguen q corresponda

(if we give it time we can fall in love with someone who'll respond)

 

… pucha imagination si ubiese sido hombre que mujeriego serio

(imagine if you were have been a man what kind of "player" you would have seriously been)

 

uy te imaginas barrias

(you imagine lots)

 

…. Hahaha

 

si aye por suerte no eres hombre, y si hubieras sido hubiera buido de ti hahahaha

(it's a good thing you weren't a man if you were i would buido (not sure what this is) of you hahaha)

 

… hahaha si pucha que feo

(yes how ugly)

[basscatcher]

Dilbert--barby's translation sounds like she cheated on you and has regrets. She wants to give you a real chance.

 

She sounds like she has a lot of growing up to do and learning to do about relationshiips..

 

This is my opinion only...

[Bryanp]

Dilbert,

 

It sounds to me that she has been lying and cheating on you and playing you for a fool. She even laughs about it. I suggest you get tested for STD's. Why do you want to settle for a wife who lies and cheats on you? Clearly she does not respect you. If you do not respect yourself then who will?

[blind_otter]

Dilbert--barby's translation sounds like she cheated on you and has regrets. She wants to give you a real chance.

 

She sounds like she has a lot of growing up to do and learning to do about relationshiips..

 

This is my opinion only...

 

what she said.

 

and thanks barby! you're a sweetheart. i hope you've been doing well.

[dilbert]

Thank you barby... I have been in a bad mood, I seriously misinterpreted this. what you wrote is exactly what I wanted to read, finally some good news in all of this nightmare.

 

Barby, this reads as if it was an EM only... no where in it did it mention anything about how they got intimate or if she wasn't happy right? She told me she was at the hotel for 15 min. and they kissed, she couldn't go any farther than that. I want to believe her, I really do. If that is all she did I can forgive her and can start working on this marriage again. Otherwise its much more difficult for me.

 

Thanks for all of your help, I know that was a lot of work translating, but it really means alot to me that you did this, you have no idea...

[jmargel]

Dilbert.. come on.. She is lying to you. Just the fact that she is discussing this with someone and laughing as well is a sign that she thinks she has gotten away with something.

 

BTW who is Barry? Is that you or the other man?

 

Honestly if you were to meet up with a chick would you actually go all the way to the hotel, go into the room, kiss and then leave? Sorry pal she is still using you.

 

Tell her tonight she has one opportunity to be truthful with you are you are kicking her out. Then do it. Tonight. Tough love is needed in this case, otherwise she is just going to continue to laugh behind your back and play you as a fool.

 

You are in denial, I know it hurts but you must snap out of this stage. Only then can the real truth and the real healing begin. The only way to beat her at these head games is to not play them. Be strong.

[THX2000]

Dilbert I know from my experience with a cheater exactly how you feel right now. You want to believe that she loves you and just made a mistake or is confused but she didn't and isn't. She is cheating on you. That is no mistake and is deliberate and selfish. She has no regard for you or your feelings and does not respect you to do something like this. You need to get rid of this woman as soon as possible. No contact or reconciliation. What more do you need? She is basically mocking you in the IM conversation and when someone treats you like that they need to go. At this point I suggest you contact a lawyer and start protecting yourself from her for the divorce.

[Naive]

BARBY YOU ARE AMAZING!!!!!!!!!! I am fluent in Spanish and, for the most part, I had no idea what in the world they were saying!!!! That is until I would read your translation then it made sense. I don't know if they misspelled many words or they are Peruvian words...I was lost!

[Mz. Pixie]

Barby,

 

That was awesome for you to do that.

 

Dilbert, you're in denial. Her friend is even kidding her saying what kind of a slut she'd be if she was a man.

 

Do you not see the part where she says she did it now and that she wasn't ready to get married?? She agreed with her friend on that part.

 

Tell her to speak English from now on when she talks, she is doing it to keep you from knowing what she is saying!

[Guest]

No offense Mz. Pixie, bit...

 

I am a native Spanish speaker (from Spain), and if my American husband even suggested I could not speak spanish to my family and friends back home when I am on the phone so he could undertand the conversation, I would get pretty pissed off. But he knows better.

 

She has the right to her privacy. It's hard enough to be away from home.

 

She has messed up real bad, yes, but it must be herself who has to come around and be honest with her husband, he has no right to ask her not to speak her native tongue, and I doubt he would do it if he truly loves her as it seems he does.

 

And by the way, maybe it's because Castillian Spanish and Latin American Spanish are completely different, but I couldn't understand half of what she said in that conversation.

[Mz. Pixie]

No offense Mz. Pixie, bit...

 

I am a native Spanish speaker (from Spain), and if my American husband even suggested I could not speak spanish to my family and friends back home when I am on the phone so he could undertand the conversation, I would get pretty pissed off. But he knows better.

 

She has the right to her privacy. It's hard enough to be away from home.

 

She has messed up real bad, yes, but it must be herself who has to come around and be honest with her husband, he has no right to ask her not to speak her native tongue, and I doubt he would do it if he truly loves her as it seems he does.

 

And by the way, maybe it's because Castillian Spanish and Latin American Spanish are completely different, but I couldn't understand half of what she said in that conversation.

 

Wrong. She's married and she's been carrying on an affair with someone in her native tongue so that her husband won't find out.

 

She has lost all right to privacy and doing this because she cheated. If she were being trustworthy and upright with all of this, her speaking her native tongue wouldn't be an issue. He cannot trust her, that is why she needs to open up all conversations for him to be able to see what's going on.

[Barby]

I know it's kinda late to respond to this thread...I understood this cuz I watch a lot of "Laura" a talk show out of Peru......I'm fluent in Spanish as well but as many have stated it is much different than spanish say from mexico (which is what I'm fluent in)....but I've heard both so frequently that it comes natural now.

 

To the OP.......I can see how you'd want to believe her....BUT in some ways her post sounds like she is bragging and a bit proud of herself for being this way....and in another way she almost sounds like she's sorry..

 

What bothers me though is how she almost seems to think she is "giving you another chance" as if you did something wrong.........she should be saying "I hope barry will try and be with me"........

 

Only you truly know how your relationship is with her...if you feel it's worth working out then I wish you the absolute best of luck.....I'm here anytime if you need further translation...:)

 

P.S. Not to hijack but......hi Naive...long time no see hope you're doing great!...and Blind Otter I've been doing well and I hope you have been as well.. Okay I'm done hijacking...

[Naive]

P.S. Not to hijack but......hi Naive...long time no see hope you're doing great!...and Blind Otter I've been doing well and I hope you have been as well.. Okay I'm done hijacking...

 

Sorry to hijack a little as well...

 

I am doing great. Planning the wedding which is so hard to do. I am turning into Bridezilla now! Crazy. Well, PM me and let me know how you are doing. It feels like back in the days on LS:love: