angie23 Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 I am 23 years old and have been with my fiance for 3 years now. He is 28 years old. For the first two years of our relationship everything was great. All of sudden things changed. He started not having sex with me. At first I didnt say anything I just let it go. I started worrying when we would go a month without it. I didnt understand it so I confronted him with it. He told me he didnt know what was wrong and would tell me if he knew. He started getting better for awhile and started back to his month without doing it again. I dont know what is going on. Nothing has changed in our relationship. I feel like maybe he just isnt attracted to me anymore? He has told me that is not it but I dont know what else it could be. If its like this now, how will it be later? He is not the same person he use to be a year ago. He use to actually try with me and actually act interested. If anyone has any advice please let me know! I have no clue on what to do anymore. I have mentioned counseling to him before but he didnt seem like he was interested in that.
loverrr Posted February 22, 2006 Posted February 22, 2006 I had the same problem with my then fiance, we were together 4 1/2 years, our sex life was always active and then he would go months without wanting it and never initiated it or anything and when i did he would make excuses that he has to go out, he's feeling tired, he's not in the mood......and a million other excuses. I never could get out of him what was the REAL problem and later ended the relationship for other reasons.... I am sorry i cant be of any help, but good luck and hope it all works out
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