Confused Woman Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 It's been a little over a month since my ex and I broke up. He's married and went back to his wife... for the second time. Our breakup so incredibly bitter and shocking that I'm still trying to understand it all. To make a long story short he was at my house and we had spent the night together, and the next day his wife (who he was supposed to be separated from) shows up at my house looking for him. I told her flat out that he was at my house and that we were a couple. He freaks out and runs out the back door and hops over my fence to escape dealing with his wife and me... and oh yeah he lied and denied that we were still seeing eachother. His wife and I had a long conversation and I just couldn't believe all the lies he'd told his wife about me. He blamed me for everything- the affair, his filing for divorce. And I learned that day he had dropped the divorce proceedings although he failed to let me in on that little fact. His house of lies came crashing down that day, and we haven't spoken since. Having no contact with this man has been one of the most difficult things I've ever done in my life. I really fell hard for him. But being slapped in the face with his lies and deception forced me to wake up. I promised myself that I'd never call him again, and I haven't. But I started getting prank calls a couple of weeks ago. A few weeks ago on a Friday I got calls all throughout the night- they started at like 10 pm and lasted until about 4 am the next morning. I traced the calls back to a payphone about 5 minutes from the house he lives in with his wife and children. Since then I get several prank calls a week, sometimes from payphones, sometimes from restricted numbers. He never says anything. He's just silent and hangs on the line until I hang up. My question is why is he doing this? What's the point of calling me all the time and never saying anything? He’s a 36 year old man prank calling my phone. I don't understand his motives. I'm trying really hard to be strong and continue with the NC but its very hard.
Art_Critic Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Honestly it doesn't amtter why he is doing this.. Call your phone company and get a new number.. it only takes a few mins and your problems with the phone go away. Or unplug your phone 1
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